i learn from my mistakes but also learn from other people's reactions to the situation. for example, when i fight with andy and i found out the attitude he has during our fights, well trust that i will remember that always. the way he deals with things and the words he chooses to use at me does stay in my mind for the longest time. never will i forget the way someone talks or treats me. yes, i am weak and always take shit from him, but i know i love him as my best friend and my lover and find ways to either talk about the problem or release it and move on. i found out the longer you are mad at someone for what they did, the longer you loose valuable friendship time with them. yes, someone can hurt another, but it takes a bigger person to forgive. not saying to forget, but to forgive and move on with life.
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