*runs around flailing*

[jacarath]

harblarblarblarblar

Okay. Got that out of my system.

I haven't posted in the last few days...sorry, Life has been exceedingly tedious and boring these past few days. And I haven't felt any compulsion to post.

Things go well. Midterm exams have been going on...easy.

Worried a bit about my status with online friends, TBH. I'm starting to wonder if I

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[noname_wanderer]

If you don't want to pick a side, don't. If you're friends with these people explain that their fighting doesn't concern you and you simply do not want to be dragged into it.

It doesn't dissuade me, and it just makes me try harder and push the friendship on, hoping that everything will fix itself in the end and I'll be perfectly happy.

Jac.....don't. Don't lie to yourself that things will just 'work out'. They never do. Besides, you already have someone and you might want to talk openly NOW about an open relationship if you don't think being with one person is for you. Otherwise, you may make a mistake and the happiness may come crumbling down.

So, take some just take some precautions is all.

[jacarath]

Ahem:
1.) I cannot remove myself from fights between friends. It drives me crazy to see friends in bad moods or such.

2.) Perhaps I worded this badly - I don't like doing this. It sits as badly with me as it does you. :p It's just one of those things that I find VERY hard to control.

3.) Thanks for the advice. :3

[jacarath]

Oh, and it is an open relationship, for the most part. polyamorous relationships, IME, end with one person being slighted.

[noname_wanderer]

So I'm just back to an earlier comment of mine, "Dragons don't mate for life in my experience. Repeat adventures are common but they tend to wander relationship-wise."

[grahckheuhl]

Well, I have a feeling that with a bit of time we actually could become very good friends. Though I'm not sure where you're choosing sides, TBH.

I guess you just need to kick them in the shins. Right? Tell them you don't need them since you have someone. Though that's just horrible that they laugh at you. Did I ever laugh at you?...Please tell me, would be nice to know. I'll tell you the difference when it comes to be between laughing and not knowing what to say.

Those moods can be the best and worst at the same time.

[jacarath]

I can't stand to see people I consider friends sad. If I comfort one, but avoid the other simply because of differing degrees of closeness, I feel like I'm choosing sides.

I will. XD

[grahckheuhl]

*nods* Not to mention that is kind of rude...but so very difficult to be able to comfort both.

Guess we already talked about that. It's all better now, right? XD

[jacarath]

yep. :p

[vickydragon]

I hate it whens friends fight among one another. Hate it. I don't like choosing sides. I don't like making anyone unhappy.

Well, unless they explicitly drag you into their fighting, then you should probably sit on the fence anyway. I find that when others try to help or choose sides, more people get hurt than is necessary.

I hate illogical crushes. It sucks so bad to want someone, but know that the feelings aren't mutual. Especially when part of me refuses to accept that. And then the person laughs about it and takes it as a compliment. It doesn't dissuade me, and it just makes me try harder and push the friendship on, hoping that everything will fix itself in the end and I'll be perfectly happy. And I want to stab myself because I'm in a good relationship...It's good that you recognize it as an illogical crush, and that you're already in a good relationship. That good relationship could work as an anchor to keep your thoughts and feelings from getting you in trouble. Things tend to not work out in your favour if you hope that

[jacarath]

*points to his above commments*

Thanks Sala. I'll keep that in mind.