THE SAME FUCKING THING HAPPENED WITH MY BF well sorta.
She would text me out of the blue (after like 3 months of not talking) and just go "hi" when I answered back, she either wouldn't answer back or she wouldn't answer for another 5 hours.
Also instead of a boyfriend taking up her time, drinking and smoking pot does.
*hugs... and does something violent in anger with you*
The thing that gets me the most, is the "well, that's what you get for liking someone in another state" ... Soooo, is your friend trying to say that it's alright for him to have behaved as though he liked you and got your hopes up, because he lives in another state?
...I really disagree with her "He likes you! Date him!" attitude, tbh. It reminds me of Katara and Aang from A:Tla. So many people thought Kataang should just happen because Aang liked Katara - as if Katara didn't have any say in the matter. Just because one party likes the other, doesn't mean they have to date. That's why there's such a thing as an unrequited love
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I feel she looks down on me and thinks she's 'all that' cuz she has a boyfriend. Like somehow she's better? I don't understand. It's just hurtful. And the fact that she's ignoring? How middle school is she? Ugh.
That is so weird. I hate it when friendships like that start to change. It happened to me with some of my old friends from high school that I knew most of my life. We all just changed and it ended. If it wasn't for FB, I probably wouldn't hear from them. :/
And I had the same situtation happen to me with a guy I liked 4 years ago. He totally led me on and I really liked him. He even used me being a LOST fan to lead me on. :/ Then he ended up dating another girl, all the while knowing I liked him. Now he's married to that girl and living in another state. I'm just SO glad now that I didn't end up with him.
The Lord has someone great out there for me and for you to. ;) I just believe that one day he'll bring me and future husband together soon. :D
And until then, we always have the great news about Dhani getting his hair cut and how much better it looks shorter. LOL :D
Hey, I just wandered in out of love for your icons but...
I feel compelled to echo your WTF about turning bi! She can't be serious, because it's obviously not possible to forcibly change your preference, but that's a pretty cold joke.
It's unfortunately natural that she's prioritizing her boyfriend. I'm pretty sure everyone I know does that. But she has no excuse for being so rude and careless.
I hope you have other friends you can turn to who appreciate your friendship and know how to be good listeners.
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She would text me out of the blue (after like 3 months of not talking) and just go "hi" when I answered back, she either wouldn't answer back or she wouldn't answer for another 5 hours.
Also instead of a boyfriend taking up her time, drinking and smoking pot does.
*hugs... and does something violent in anger with you*
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I'm glad someone understands!
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...I really disagree with her "He likes you! Date him!" attitude, tbh. It reminds me of Katara and Aang from A:Tla. So many people thought Kataang should just happen because Aang liked Katara - as if Katara didn't have any say in the matter.
Just because one party likes the other, doesn't mean they have to date. That's why there's such a thing as an unrequited love ( ... )
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I feel she looks down on me and thinks she's 'all that' cuz she has a boyfriend. Like somehow she's better? I don't understand. It's just hurtful. And the fact that she's ignoring? How middle school is she? Ugh.
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I'm glad I have friends like you ♥ It means sooo much xxx
and yes.... FLYNN <333 all the timmeee c: haha
LUFF YOUUUU <3333
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And I had the same situtation happen to me with a guy I liked 4 years ago. He totally led me on and I really liked him. He even used me being a LOST fan to lead me on. :/ Then he ended up dating another girl, all the while knowing I liked him. Now he's married to that girl and living in another state. I'm just SO glad now that I didn't end up with him.
The Lord has someone great out there for me and for you to. ;) I just believe that one day he'll bring me and future husband together soon. :D
And until then, we always have the great news about Dhani getting his hair cut and how much better it looks shorter. LOL :D
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And yes, the Lord does have someone c: He'll come soon! He's just lost... and you know how men are.. can't ask for directions, guh. lol
And yes! HIS NEW HAIRCUT IS AMAZINGGGGGGGG <333
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LOL Yeah guys really are bad when it comes to directions. LOL ;)
It totally is!!!!!!!!!!!!! <3
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I feel compelled to echo your WTF about turning bi! She can't be serious, because it's obviously not possible to forcibly change your preference, but that's a pretty cold joke.
It's unfortunately natural that she's prioritizing her boyfriend. I'm pretty sure everyone I know does that. But she has no excuse for being so rude and careless.
I hope you have other friends you can turn to who appreciate your friendship and know how to be good listeners.
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