I knew it would happen... *shakes head*
I'm not all fluffy bunny part 4.
It feels wonderful knowing that you may have killed a marriage. Funny part is, I'm used to making them. Getting people together and such. Seems this time they are getting together and the husband is getting the cold shoulder. Gotta love soul fragments. Those are the people that I believe are connected to you in past lives, but are not your soul mate. These people could be lovers, friends, parents, or just related to you. You may feel totally connected with them, because you are reliving a part of that connection. Life is a series of tests, which is how I have found my soul mate and am bound to her through blood. Something as strong as the soul connection we share.
I have met many of my soul fragments, but many out there are still looking, or believe they have found it. The universe is tricky for humans bound by emotions or beliefs that they are trapped. That the possibility of the grass being greener on the other side is a risk to take. Of course we see, hear, feel, and think what we want. Not always what is factual or real. Most think of the concept of what they want is the rule and in most cases it is not. People forget that someone else is looking over the fence at you and think that the grass is greener on your side. Even when you look across and think it's greener on theirs.
Open relationships only work if the two participants are firm in the trust that they have for the other. I only believe that a marriage and not anything else can do anything open. Mostly because you are already committed to each other and not just dating or saying you'll get married one day. Also both have to understand that emotions are an issue and the emotion of love is not. A want to fuck someone or even give them pain or some other pleasure is an emotion. Which all humans have, again the grass is greener, or it's nice to play and still have stability back home. If you are not stable in your relationship, then don't do it. Always talk things out and have guidelines set, but still be flexible. If the rules or guidelines are too rigid, then why do it. I've have seen jealousy from both sexes on this issue when they start an open relationship. For me, I am totally open and Hollie is slightly open about anything resembling open relationships. We had this discussion maybe a month ago out of the blue. We have had the discussion off and on. Even if we never go the open relationship route, at least the feelings on where we stand are out.
Master/slave/Dom/sub relationships again work with rules. I am a Dominant, but not the way I've seen a lot of others portray it. I also am a sadist, but not that any one would be able to tell. Unless they have been on the receiving end of it. Most of my dominance is mental, even though I do like to give pain. I also have a high tolerance for receiving as well, because I am masochistic mentally and physically. I adapt to my surroundings and try to integrate that into what is me. I have scared people, because I believe that if you know who you are dealing with, you will know when to stop. Again I am instinctual and not a "trained" Dom/whatever, so my ways are not your ways.
I have watched people and dissected their thoughts for many years. I believe in a slave/sub having a brain and being able to use it. At the same time, they have to know when to be submissive and when not to be. That is if you are doing this 24/7 and not just part time or in a play party situation. I seduce and tease and that is where the sadistic side comes out in me, but I can be your best friend and be with you till the end. Normally I can tell if someone is going to bolt and most do. Or Hollie scares them off. *chuckles* You have to be on the bottom to top, or you will not know how to control another person at all. It will be the semblance of control and therefore will grow stale and stagnant, then it will die. Everything is what you make of it and you have to have a cohesive bond. A ring or a collar is the same thing to me. Half the people go into it with their eyes opened or closed. Everything is what you make of it and no matter how the dynamic is, you are still partners.
It feels wonderful knowing that you may have killed a marriage. Funny part is, I'm used to making them. Getting people together and such. Seems this time they are getting together and the husband is getting the cold shoulder. Gotta love soul fragments. Those are the people that I believe are connected to you in past lives, but are not your soul mate. These people could be lovers, friends, parents, or just related to you. You may feel totally connected with them, because you are reliving a part of that connection. Life is a series of tests, which is how I have found my soul mate and am bound to her through blood. Something as strong as the soul connection we share.
I have met many of my soul fragments, but many out there are still looking, or believe they have found it. The universe is tricky for humans bound by emotions or beliefs that they are trapped. That the possibility of the grass being greener on the other side is a risk to take. Of course we see, hear, feel, and think what we want. Not always what is factual or real. Most think of the concept of what they want is the rule and in most cases it is not. People forget that someone else is looking over the fence at you and think that the grass is greener on your side. Even when you look across and think it's greener on theirs.
Open relationships only work if the two participants are firm in the trust that they have for the other. I only believe that a marriage and not anything else can do anything open. Mostly because you are already committed to each other and not just dating or saying you'll get married one day. Also both have to understand that emotions are an issue and the emotion of love is not. A want to fuck someone or even give them pain or some other pleasure is an emotion. Which all humans have, again the grass is greener, or it's nice to play and still have stability back home. If you are not stable in your relationship, then don't do it. Always talk things out and have guidelines set, but still be flexible. If the rules or guidelines are too rigid, then why do it. I've have seen jealousy from both sexes on this issue when they start an open relationship. For me, I am totally open and Hollie is slightly open about anything resembling open relationships. We had this discussion maybe a month ago out of the blue. We have had the discussion off and on. Even if we never go the open relationship route, at least the feelings on where we stand are out.
Master/slave/Dom/sub relationships again work with rules. I am a Dominant, but not the way I've seen a lot of others portray it. I also am a sadist, but not that any one would be able to tell. Unless they have been on the receiving end of it. Most of my dominance is mental, even though I do like to give pain. I also have a high tolerance for receiving as well, because I am masochistic mentally and physically. I adapt to my surroundings and try to integrate that into what is me. I have scared people, because I believe that if you know who you are dealing with, you will know when to stop. Again I am instinctual and not a "trained" Dom/whatever, so my ways are not your ways.
I have watched people and dissected their thoughts for many years. I believe in a slave/sub having a brain and being able to use it. At the same time, they have to know when to be submissive and when not to be. That is if you are doing this 24/7 and not just part time or in a play party situation. I seduce and tease and that is where the sadistic side comes out in me, but I can be your best friend and be with you till the end. Normally I can tell if someone is going to bolt and most do. Or Hollie scares them off. *chuckles* You have to be on the bottom to top, or you will not know how to control another person at all. It will be the semblance of control and therefore will grow stale and stagnant, then it will die. Everything is what you make of it and you have to have a cohesive bond. A ring or a collar is the same thing to me. Half the people go into it with their eyes opened or closed. Everything is what you make of it and no matter how the dynamic is, you are still partners.