I have to get ready for work but I need to get something out and maybe seek a little advice. You're probably going to hate me because I've been very back and forth on this subject
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If you know you're not right for her right now, because of everything she's risking and how she's feeling, then it makes sense for you to let her go. It might not have to be forever, but if it's what's best and will save you both more heartache later it can be done.
I don't know how you could tell her though so she would understand and not feel angry, sad or guilty again. She's risking too much and if she's not willing to give up something (preferably him and not her friends) then the house of cards she's got going on is just too big. You can say it's about you not feeling right, or it's about her risking too much or you can say it's both.
Would just being friends ever work? Or would you be forced to go cold turkey?
Also, I may be coming in to town next Friday and leaving Monday, not relly sure though.
So my mother has re-offered to buy me a ticket home, if I still want. Thusly, I was wondering if and how we would be able to hang out without the benefit of a personal motor vehicle. As in Mommy-No-Drivey.
Any suggestions or input would be appreciated as soon as possible, since cheap seats are going fast.
Well... next friday would be the 14th or the 21st? Either is fine with me. The last weekend of August I'll be in the falls helping Andrew move. You're more than welcome to come help if that is the weekend you'll be down. No transportation is fine too. You can stay here in Oakville with me if the bus system strands us. I'll be paid the weekend of the 14th too so I'll actually have money! Its like a miracle. We'll have to do a tour of Toronto for old times sake. Would you maybe want to meet Sammi at all? I'm not attached at the hip with her so its no big deal if you're not in a meeting new people sort of mood. :) Trust me, I know that feeling well.
I was aiming to show up first thing Satuday The 15th and leave late Monday. Meeting Sammi would be cool at some point, we can see how it goes. I need to see how much time the folks need with me first.
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I don't know how you could tell her though so she would understand and not feel angry, sad or guilty again. She's risking too much and if she's not willing to give up something (preferably him and not her friends) then the house of cards she's got going on is just too big. You can say it's about you not feeling right, or it's about her risking too much or you can say it's both.
Would just being friends ever work? Or would you be forced to go cold turkey?
Also, I may be coming in to town next Friday and leaving Monday, not relly sure though.
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Any suggestions or input would be appreciated as soon as possible, since cheap seats are going fast.
Many thanks and pies.
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