Re: Isn't everyone?smilenone1December 3 2003, 13:21:01 UTC
honey, completely normal. when you love someone you can't possibly jus wake up one day and stop caring. It takes time to understand why things are the way they are. We know that everything happens for a reason ( I know we've all heard that a million times) but everything is ok in the end...if it's not ok, it's not the end. Just keep your head up and know that things can only get better! I'm here for you and I'm sure a bunch of other people are too. You know that if you ever need ANYTHING that I'm only a phone call and a hop skip and jump down the turnpike :o) You're such an amazing girl and you're gonna get through this...wanna know why? Because you can. :o)
Re: Isn't everyone?jadedace6December 4 2003, 07:00:26 UTC
i agree, alot of what u said is true and are things that i have thought about. its just that when u are stuck in the rut its not that easy to look at the big picture and give yourself a break.
i'd like to think that at some point people reach happiness and that not everyone is faking it. that would be a pretty sad world if we all just walked around pretending to be happy....
Re: Isn't everyone?
anonymous
December 5 2003, 06:35:46 UTC
no, you're right. I don't think everyone is walking around faking it all of the time - I just mean that everyone is sad sometimes and most people don't show it. Then when you're sad, you feel like you're the only one who feels that way, and that makes it worse - now not only are you depressed, you feel like some kind of freak for being depressed. I think even if you asked the person that you think is the happiest, they'd say that they aren't always that happy. But you probably knew that.
So, don't feel alone, and don't be afraid to talk to other people that you know about it - you might be surprised to find out that they're feeling the same way.
i was going to reply to your comment in my LJ, but figured that you'd get an e-mail notification and check here faster.
my face lit up to see your comment. :-)
i have been so sad to not see you. you need to come back and brighten up my life, ok? a funny little coincidence.. in my last LJ entry you'll notice that i made reference to my entry from 4/24/03. one of the posts you made on that entry was "we need to play". so now i am saying it back to you. we need to play girl. and sooner than later :-)
shit has been crazy for both of us and i hope it settles soon. love you lots.
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i'd like to think that at some point people reach happiness and that not everyone is faking it. that would be a pretty sad world if we all just walked around pretending to be happy....
anyway, thanks for your words.
and, Who is this???
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So, don't feel alone, and don't be afraid to talk to other people that you know about it - you might be surprised to find out that they're feeling the same way.
I hope that came out better this time.
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my face lit up to see your comment. :-)
i have been so sad to not see you. you need to come back and brighten up my life, ok? a funny little coincidence.. in my last LJ entry you'll notice that i made reference to my entry from 4/24/03. one of the posts you made on that entry was "we need to play". so now i am saying it back to you. we need to play girl. and sooner than later :-)
shit has been crazy for both of us and i hope it settles soon. love you lots.
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