Comments | jadedgrayson: Things I didn't say that I should have

jadedgrayson

Things I didn't say that I should have

Jun 26, 2005 00:54

First, I would like to say that you, in no way, have shown me any of your “Christian” values, and in fact have pushed me farther away from the church than I’ve ever been. Solely because of you, I hope to never set foot in a church again, nor will I want to associate myself with “Christians” like you again ( Read more... )

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"Looks" magsiedivine June 26 2005, 18:05:13 UTC

The "looks" that you recieved on the day you came to get your things were out of disgust. You had managed to NOT tell Aimee that the bills were being cut off, NOT tell her you were moving out.. it seemed like an ambush to everyone around her. You scared her and upset her on the phone when you returned her call ( ... )

Re: "Looks" jadedgrayson June 28 2005, 07:23:14 UTC

The looks I was talking about were the ones leading up to that day. When I walked into the room and the conversation stopped, that let me know the conversation wasn't meant to be heard by me, or the people speaking didn't want to speak with me. In any of those cases, I knew I wasn't welcomed, so I went to my room and closed the door to let you carry on ( ... )

story anonymous June 27 2005, 21:26:39 UTC

always a second side to a story, great reading to conclude the 2nd part. i take no sides, guess i could be on the jury

huge symphony of violins anonymous June 29 2005, 16:13:34 UTC

You know I have just a few things to say about this whole damn thing. I have known you for quite some time now and I have known her for longer. Knowing what I do about you and sitting up with late into the middle of the night listening to all of your issues, I think I can be fair in commenting on this. The bottom line of all of this is you need to stop pissing about shit and just get on with it. Pick yourself off the f*cking ground, take ownership of your problems financial and otherwise and do something about it. You can't blame her for your faith or whatever. That is a total load of shit. You alone are responsible for your feelings about god and your faith in that. No one can blame someone else and say it's their fault you have lost your way. You make the choices in your life. You choose to feel the way you do. You choose to stay in a space in yourself and stay in shitty jobs. You choose to be miserable. You choose to have this whole "eyeore" mentality all the time. That is the way you get attention and you thrive on ( ... )

Re: huge symphony of violins jadedgrayson July 1 2005, 05:20:11 UTC

You can shake me all you want, it won't change anything. I believe in moving out, from a place that was NOT good for me, into my own place, I am taking control of my own things, my own space, and my own bills. I know you don't want to hear this, and it seems hardly anyone is listening or reading what I'm saying, but I don't want to talk about this, and had she left it alone, so would I. I'm done, I'm out, and I never want to go back. You can go ahead and call me all the names you want, but living in that house did NOT help me in any way. I'm poorer now than I was before I moved in. I paid for a washer and dryer that she and her sister used like they owned it, and I get told I have to pay $350 extra for 2 feet of closet space in an empty room??? That doesn't sound like someone who is trying to help me. Aimee got much more out of that deal than I did, and when she had the opportunity to make it right, all she did was put notes on my door blaming me for problems she was having...so I left. Now she's pissed. Now you're all ( ... )

Re: huge symphony of violins anonymous July 1 2005, 12:59:02 UTC

Quick! somebody call the WHAAAAAAMBULANCE!!!

Re: huge symphony of violins jadedgrayson July 2 2005, 08:31:38 UTC

Damn straight, and make sure they bring enough cheese for her and her friends' WHINE.

Crazy anonymous July 3 2005, 21:48:48 UTC

I am a friend of everyone involved in this ordeal and let me just say this. There is no use crying over spilled perfume. As long as everyone involved is better off then all ties should be cut. Aimee needs to get her shit back and that should be the end of it. Quit all the bitching and move on with life or it will pass you by.

Re: Crazy anonymous July 4 2005, 13:38:22 UTC

Dude, be glad you're out of there. Women are insane enough, but add in the "I'm getting MARRIED!!!!" version and you're just fucked. Add a heaping helping of "christianity" ( this would be the, "ya'll I got SO drunk last night, now let's go to church" christians ) and you have yet another fantastic reason to distance yourself. I've followed this whole debacle on all the LJ entries ( mighty interesting reading ) and, above all else, it's hilarious. Not to make light of your situation, but in about a year you'll look back on it all and laugh. People get worked up over the pettiest shit. Oh, the DRAMA.

Move out, move on and move up.

the blame game anonymous July 5 2005, 04:45:18 UTC

this entire entry is yet another classic example of you placing blame everywhere except where it should be placed -- on you ( ... )

Re: the blame game anonymous July 5 2005, 13:26:12 UTC

See what christianity does? Mostly, it gives people an opportunity to say "Ya'll, I'm a CHRISTIAN" and not much else. Of course if you have a jesus fish on your car it also automatically gives you the right to drive like a jackass. People in organized groups are dangerous. All the good stuff gets left behind and you just get left with the nasty sociological afterbirth ( ... )

Re: the blame game anonymous July 6 2005, 01:28:16 UTC

yeah, never said i was a christian. thanx for playing, though. :)

perhaps the reason all these people are "on him like wolves" is because they happen to know truth from bullshit.

one can only play the martyr role for so long. eventually, it gets old and starts to create a stench.