Just a couple things
1. I think a lot of people meet me and think that I'm interesting and then lose interest when they find out that, really, I'm just weird and quite boring.
2. This one has been bugging me for a little bit. My cousin who used to molest me for a while when I was a teenager has a daughter, a girl who lives in the same house as him who will next year be the age I was then. Even though it's in the distant past, I feel like I should bring this up with his wife or mother, I'm pretty sure neither of whom knows, to essentially keep history from repeating itself. But I'm not that close with my extended family, particularly my father's side and especially since my parents split. And it's not the kind of thing you can call someone you haven't seen in half a decade and say over the phone. And my father was so remarkably unhelpful when he finally found out about the whole thing that I'm not sure he can be counted on to intercede on anyone's behalf. So is there a good way to approach this?
2. This one has been bugging me for a little bit. My cousin who used to molest me for a while when I was a teenager has a daughter, a girl who lives in the same house as him who will next year be the age I was then. Even though it's in the distant past, I feel like I should bring this up with his wife or mother, I'm pretty sure neither of whom knows, to essentially keep history from repeating itself. But I'm not that close with my extended family, particularly my father's side and especially since my parents split. And it's not the kind of thing you can call someone you haven't seen in half a decade and say over the phone. And my father was so remarkably unhelpful when he finally found out about the whole thing that I'm not sure he can be counted on to intercede on anyone's behalf. So is there a good way to approach this?