ic. colour me _____
[ so, that quiz everyone is doing? he just finished it and... ]
Jaye's Existing Situation
"Organized and detail-oriented, he has a very precise and methodical manner. He needs relationships which offer him understanding, respect, and approval."
Jaye's Stress Sources
Tries to hold back his normal enthusiastic and imaginative self in fear that he may get carried away by it and chase after unrealistic goals. Feels betrayed and used and is staying emotionally distant to keep others from hurting him more. His is distrusting and suspicious of the actions and intentions of other people.
Jaye's Restrained Characteristics
"Insists his hopes and ideas are realistic and achievable, but needs encouragement and support. His self-centeredness can cause him to take things too personally."
"Feels trapped in a helpless situation and is desperately seeking relief. He is able to find pleasure and happiness in sexual activity, as long as there is not a lot of conflict or emotional difficulty."
Current events leave him feeling forced into compromise in order to avoid being cut off from affection or future cooperation.
Jaye's Desired Objective
"Looking to make a good impression and be recognized for his achievements. He has a strong need to feel appreciated and look up to. He is very sensitive and will be hurt if he is rejected, unnoticed, or not given adequate acknowledgement."
Jaye's Actual Problem
"Has been disappointed and let down, believes it is pointless to come up with new goals as they will most likely disappoint as well. Needs to be recognized and respected, but is worried about the future. Reacts by avoiding situations where he will be criticized or others will attempt to influence him. Tries to take charge of the situation by controlling the details and strengthen his position."
Jaye's Actual Problem #2
Works toward building his position and increasing his self-esteem by viewing his accomplishments (and those of others) critically and harsh judgement. Insists on things being straightforward and clear.
[ really. this is all a lie - even if the test pegged him right, for the most part. hng. ]
Jaye's Existing Situation
"Organized and detail-oriented, he has a very precise and methodical manner. He needs relationships which offer him understanding, respect, and approval."
Jaye's Stress Sources
Tries to hold back his normal enthusiastic and imaginative self in fear that he may get carried away by it and chase after unrealistic goals. Feels betrayed and used and is staying emotionally distant to keep others from hurting him more. His is distrusting and suspicious of the actions and intentions of other people.
Jaye's Restrained Characteristics
"Insists his hopes and ideas are realistic and achievable, but needs encouragement and support. His self-centeredness can cause him to take things too personally."
"Feels trapped in a helpless situation and is desperately seeking relief. He is able to find pleasure and happiness in sexual activity, as long as there is not a lot of conflict or emotional difficulty."
Current events leave him feeling forced into compromise in order to avoid being cut off from affection or future cooperation.
Jaye's Desired Objective
"Looking to make a good impression and be recognized for his achievements. He has a strong need to feel appreciated and look up to. He is very sensitive and will be hurt if he is rejected, unnoticed, or not given adequate acknowledgement."
Jaye's Actual Problem
"Has been disappointed and let down, believes it is pointless to come up with new goals as they will most likely disappoint as well. Needs to be recognized and respected, but is worried about the future. Reacts by avoiding situations where he will be criticized or others will attempt to influence him. Tries to take charge of the situation by controlling the details and strengthen his position."
Jaye's Actual Problem #2
Works toward building his position and increasing his self-esteem by viewing his accomplishments (and those of others) critically and harsh judgement. Insists on things being straightforward and clear.
[ really. this is all a lie - even if the test pegged him right, for the most part. hng. ]