Comments | jamiechan108: Wishes. :P

jamiechan108

Wishes. :P

Apr 21, 2006 22:59

I wish that I wasn't doubting myself. Lately with the way my friends are doing in their relationship, I"m starting to believe that this happiness and bliss I'm getting with my boyfriend will soon lead to a downfall. Right now, I was starting to believe this, cause we haven't seen each other in around 2 weeks, and my sanity is getting smaller and ( Read more... )

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xroadtonowherex April 23 2006, 15:33:23 UTC

jaime, one word of advice:
"m starting to believe that this happiness and bliss I'm getting with my boyfriend will soon lead to a downfall ..If you live life thinking this way, you are going to miss out on some real important aspects of life. When it's good, you CANNOT doubt it or your doubts turn into realities subconsiously. You have to give yourself the freedom to live without questioning everything that is good in your life. Believe it or not, you deserve happiness. You NEED happiness in order to exist and in order to grow and become wiser... bad experiences are not the only things you can learn from. You learn just as much, if not more, from the good ( ... )

Thanks :] jamiechan108 April 23 2006, 15:57:16 UTC

Thanks for the advice, I guess I was just thinking too much and worried about how my feeling might affect my relationship. ^_^ It's always nice to get advice now-a-days instead of giving it. Thanks also for the realization, I thought I might end up staying in a huge haze for a while, but I'm starting to pick up the broken pieces of the puzzle I made for myself. I won't doubt myself, cause then I wouldn't be a strong person at heart. ^_^

Re: Thanks :] xroadtonowherex April 23 2006, 20:23:13 UTC

just because you doubt yourself, doesnt mean you arent a strong person! Everyone doubts themselves at times...otherwise we would have a world full of HUGE egos and that would be interesting...hahaha BUT there are boundaries. And I feel like it might get easier not to doubt ourselves as we get older and learn more given that we are always open minded about things and think before we act :)

Re: Thanks :] jamiechan108 April 24 2006, 18:43:06 UTC

haha that would be intresting XD

and yeah I know what you're getting at... I'm usually a very deep thinker, so I don't mess up, but lately I guess I've been kinda stressed so things are going haywire. :P At times, I must admit I will doubt myself (very often actually v_v) but yeah. ^_^ heh.