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[jamjen]

I feel like I don't update this enough. But I feel like I don't have as much to say as when I was more youthful and wanted to write poems and complain about the world. hah.

My life is so focused on the wedding, I haven't really taken a lot of time to sit there and really take everything in. I need to have a bath or something and just spend some me

Comments

[matt_nicole]

"I'm not even married and I've got babies on the brain (I think it's due to the fact that everyone around me is having a child or is carrying one and impatiently waiting for it). Babies are so cute. I can't wait! I can, but I can't."

Please do wait. A year minimum. Please.

Congratulations to your Ma. That's really cool. Please do tell us the name of the book.

haha

[jamjen]

don't you worry, were not even planning that until a year or two after.

No worries there.

But i'm curious...why not?

Re: haha

[matt_nicole]

I think every married couple benefits from a year alone. If you get pregnant quickly you'll only have 9 months alone and those 9 months will be all about planning for the baby.

I'd wait at least two years just to adjust to being married, getting your finances in order, etc.

Re: haha

[jamjen]

Yeah I thought that might've been your reasoning but It's what were already planning for. 2 years sounds perfect.

I've always been baby crazy. But in a smart way. hah.

Except I got made fun of a lot last night for pretending to squeeze this babies cheeks in that picture because he's just so cute. Jamie called me nuts haha.