Comments | jan1979: Wasting Time

jan1979

Wasting Time

Oct 24, 2004 19:20

Today I went to youth. It felt like a complete waste of time, becasue the fellowship, which is half the point of going to a youth group and participating in such activities, was agonizing. Throughout the whole thing I felt alienated, and maybe for good reason, because I think that maybe I'm really not wanted. I mean, I have it really good compared ( Read more... )

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look at the whole picture before you pass judgement trueclandestine October 25 2004, 02:08:51 UTC

You said if an "emo" chick was in your position they would have gone insane, well you seem pretty "emo" to me. You talk about how the other teenagers act, but could it be true that you act like them also? only that you dont wish to see it? I belive so. You are trying to make it seem as if everyone is against you but they are not. People arent as bad as you make them out to be so please just stop being paranoid and apatheic and give people a chance and open your eyes to see if what you say is bad about other people is exactly what you are doing.

Re: look at the whole picture before you pass judgement jan1979 October 25 2004, 10:46:21 UTC

Thank you, you responded the exact way in which I knew people would respond. THe entire piece was about me bridging over from beign an alienator to being the alienated. I also say how dare you call me an emo chick, when I dont even have pronounce emotions about this subject. Im not clearly angry, im not clearly apathetic, I obviously care to an extent. Now this is an issue of whether I myself am an emo chick? Thats ridiculous, and once again categories get in the way again.
I grew up in this place, and I'm not going to stop going. I think you are wrong

Re: look at the whole picture before you pass judgement trueclandestine October 25 2004, 19:19:05 UTC

bridging over from being the alienator to being the alienated? again i say i bet your imagining that you are being alienated, people do care, and as for calling you an "emo" chick, there was nothing wrong in me doing so. You did express emotion so there for you were "emo". Honestly i hate the term because everyone experiances emotion so therefor everyone could be considers an "emo" boy or girl. So yes i could rightfully say you are being an "emo" girl, im an "emo" guy. You did also state that you were feeling apathetic in your mood spot and if you care to an extent then your really not apathetic are you?
I never said stop going to what ever your thing is, but instead of just complaining about the problem, why dont you go and do something about it?

Re: look at the whole picture before you pass judgement jan1979 October 25 2004, 21:57:18 UTC

Im in complete disagreement, and now I think that you are merely finding soem joy out of putting a title on me. Thats what im trying to get away from....you see? you are alienating me by giving me a what we both could agree is a lesser title, and in doing so, you are pushing me farther away. THnk you.