"What the fuck is that supposed to mean?" is a good way.
Whose perception of her is she worried about? Her own? Yours? If you're with her, comfort her by reminding her that you like her with one of those nice cheap compliments, it might be what she's trolling for. If she has poor self esteem, it's not your job to fix shit.
Me, I just don't hang out with women dumb enough to throw loaded questions at me like that.
every woman at some point and time will feel that. a woman could feel fat due to many things. it could be her period and she could be bloating, or she over ate and feels she really gained a few pounds. Or even fishing for a compliment as brians sister put it.
The best way to handle it in my opinion is answer her negitivity with another qestion to avoid complimenting her with a chessy compliment and try and find the root of her acual ordeal.
when wemon say they feel fat, they sometimes just want attention. its almost a despreate cry for complimetns.
i would say. why do you think your fat? (her answer) and then build from there.
calling you insensitive was a mistake. your very sensitive towards other ppl brian. i agree (for the most part) that wemon have a deeper meaning to sometimes "feeling fat" as for the person above meh, it is best to avoid ppl like that cuz most the time those ppl are self lothing, but... theres always that one... so it can never really be avoided.
I wish I had a Psychoanalyst hat! Then all my questions would be answered. Or maybe the sorting hat from Harry Potter would be better. Ya thats the one.
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I'd just find a way to derail that one.
"What the fuck is that supposed to mean?" is a good way.
Whose perception of her is she worried about? Her own? Yours? If you're with her, comfort her by reminding her that you like her with one of those nice cheap compliments, it might be what she's trolling for. If she has poor self esteem, it's not your job to fix shit.
Me, I just don't hang out with women dumb enough to throw loaded questions at me like that.
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The best way to handle it in my opinion is answer her negitivity with another qestion to avoid complimenting her with a chessy compliment and try and find the root of her acual ordeal.
when wemon say they feel fat, they sometimes just want attention. its almost a despreate cry for complimetns.
i would say. why do you think your fat? (her answer) and then build from there.
calling you insensitive was a mistake. your very sensitive towards other ppl brian. i agree (for the most part) that wemon have a deeper meaning to sometimes "feeling fat" as for the person above meh, it is best to avoid ppl like that cuz most the time those ppl are self lothing, but... theres always that one... so it can never really be avoided.
hello brian. i miss ya
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miss you too
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