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[jasmina_7]

well, another boyfried has turned into a psycho.. well, he wasnt even my boyfriend anymore, but he thought he could take it upon himself to come into my apartment when i was sleeping, start fucking me, then when i come to and realize what was going on, he just started yelling at me.. there wass omething not quite right in his eyes.. he wouldnt get

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Driving a car.

[neurosicyde]

I'll use this analogy. A relationship is like driving a car with someone else. The twist is that the steering wheel is in the middle of the dash. And both of you are only allowed to have one hand on the wheel, which you need to keep there all the time. You can very well imagine what happens when someone takes there hand off, or someone trys to take the car in a direction the other doesn't want to go. Control cannot be assumed, but needs to be discovered, learned and appreciated.

Now the question. What kind of car do you really wanna drive? And where is it going? That's what helps you find who should sit in it with you and drive to the same place.
I hope I didn't baffle or miss the point. But I like to try and offer an alternative view point.

Hang in there jas.
We love ya.