some thoughts

[jasminebaby]

in the past year so much has happened to me i have lost so much and gained solittle but i think that that is the order of things just recently i have lost my dad he commited suicide i know that it wasnt ment to happen he did it of his own free will but it doesnt stop the pain at all of things and then three days ago alex husky and i broke off our

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[jarrardi]

Omnia mutantur nos et mutamur in illis. "All things change and we change with them." The best we can do is be sure we change for the better, and I think you have. *warm hugs* Regret, even more than worry, changes nothing; it just wears us out and makes us depressed. I regret a lot of thins, and wish I could have changed a lot of things, but always I remember something a friend once told me: "It's always okay in the end. If it isn't okay, it isn't the end." It's very true. Sometimes things seem to have ended, but really, it's just the intermission, and everything will change in Act 2. :-3 However, speaking from experience, trying to hide away and keep people out so that you can't get hurt and you can't do things you might regret only makes things worse. People were made to share and be open, because no one can handle this world alone. So please don't try to hold it all in and deal with it yourself... strong though you are, no one can do that