"how do I change that -- not just have girls on MY mind, but have me on THEIR minds"
anonymous
October 20 2003, 14:01:13 UTC
AA teaches: you have to love and be generous to others before you can truly be loved in return. Do something nice every day for those around you, everyone you're with -- think how you can help them or brighten up their day. It will get you out of yourself. Be responsible and do the things you know you should, and you will feel much better about yourself. Your day will be much brighter. Look back at your journal and see when you were happiest - it was after being with three girls (and you were surprised how cool they all were). Maybe going to Cotillion and dancing with girls will make you happier than going to the movies with a bunch of guys. Finally, for what it's worth, I love you more than you know. I would lay down my life for you in a heartbeat.
i might not be the girlfriend you want, but i can be a female friend if you would like... i know it's not what you're looking for, but i'm always there for my friends, ask any one of them... i understand what you're going through. i really do. i've been in the same position. your dad's right, one of the only ways to be happy is to be happy about yourself. and put yourself out there whenever you can. you're such an awesome guy, really. i don't know anyone like you, and that's a good thing. all of my friends, minus one, don't know what they want in anything and aren't true to themselves. and the one who is, yeah he has his bads times, but i also know he loves who he is and is proud of himself for it. and i'm proud of him for it also (i don't even know if he knows that...) but if you ever need someone to talk to, i'm always around, just find me :)
To Appreciate Love is to be PatientkonfusedkiddOctober 21 2003, 17:50:25 UTC
There is a lot in life to which we often "jump the gun" as the old saying goes. One of which is not relationships...but love. And another is true happiness
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by the way, my house or yours?
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i find it incredibly stupid how we are both online, yet we are conversing through my journal. lol.
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your dad's right, one of the only ways to be happy is to be happy about yourself. and put yourself out there whenever you can. you're such an awesome guy, really. i don't know anyone like you, and that's a good thing.
all of my friends, minus one, don't know what they want in anything and aren't true to themselves. and the one who is, yeah he has his bads times, but i also know he loves who he is and is proud of himself for it. and i'm proud of him for it also (i don't even know if he knows that...)
but if you ever need someone to talk to, i'm always around, just find me :)
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thats an awesome statement. i shall keep that in my back pocket. thanx for the support and advice.
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