Dates, Dads 'n Debates.. not to mention alot of Harry Potter

[jaydee_lady]

I have a migraine (again) so I'll make this entry short and snappy- or at least try. I need to eat my pasta, phone Nina back and read Harry Potter and the Goblet of Fire as well. Oh, life is just SO hectic in the summer :P

Comments

[_lifeaftergod_]

Wow, that was a great essay Jenn. I agree with you on a lot of it. I do think the pressure of "going steady" quickly causes a lot of problems, needless confusing and broken hearts. There is a lot of pressure all of a sudden, and often you don't know what to do, etc, leading to a lot of stress and nasty break-ups. Getting too serious too soon is just asking for trouble.(That opinion is based on a personal experience from a couple years ago) I do think casual dating is a good idea for most people, gives them a chance to try everything out before going further. Unfortunatly that idea has been twisted in recent years into the whole "friends with benefits" thing.