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jaydee_lady

Dating Debates

Jul 02, 2004 22:30

Hum I just had a revelation on casual dating from Jason. Now I'm a bit confused, because he is right about some things. We've been debating it- ah I dunno. So much for dating HIM- at least this summer! :P Darm. Umm and yeah I don't think my guys mind sharing me and stuff. Uh. LOL I haven't really thought about them. Wow am I getting self centered ( Read more... )

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more on this dating debate flying_mouse July 3 2004, 09:52:06 UTC

"MANY short meaningless relationships caused by the fact that you dont know what you want" - isnt the word relationship defined the same way as 'going steady' so how can you have a relationship if your just 'dating casually' ?? and i dont think you really have to know what you want, b/c your just hanging out with a guy friend and as long as you dont get serious in any way then theres no confusion or pain.
i quite agree with jason on the whole second best thing though.

Wuss anonymous July 3 2004, 15:29:27 UTC

Anthony sounds like a putz. You should tell him not to be such a major wuss. Seriously.

Scratch that anonymous July 3 2004, 15:47:57 UTC

Wait, nevermind.. Anthony is probably ugly as sin, isn't he? Yeah, if he's that shy, he definetly is. In that case you should tell him to get plastic surgery, and then stop being a wuss.

Re: Scratch that jaydee_lady July 3 2004, 15:49:31 UTC

LOL who posted that?? He isn't that bad looking :P

Well then.. anonymous July 3 2004, 17:59:09 UTC

Well after looking through your posts, he obviously likes you, what with the gifts and whatnot, and it seems to me as though you like him, so the only problem is he's a wuss, right? Maybe you should take the initiative, then.. Or are you a wuss, too? Of course, there is the possibility that I'm wrong and you don't actually like him, in which case you should let him know that, as opposed to leaving him hanging.. Hm, too much thinking.

Re: Well then.. jaydee_lady July 3 2004, 19:21:33 UTC

Haha I dont know how I feel about him, actually. If I was 100% sure I liked him, I wouldn't be afraid of confronting him- believe me, I've done it plenty of times before! Yeah.. I'm no wuss but my feelings for him are very mixed. I haven't known him very long. He's asked me on a few dates so I dunno I think I'll see how that goes.

BoY PrObS ixoye4ever July 3 2004, 20:04:37 UTC

K i think that its more ideal to date a guy that you really care about and someone that you think that you could see yourself marrying. Basically that's called courting. When you casually date people, you might miss the one that you really care about because you might be getting way in over your head. I dated like that for a while and you end about alone and lonely. Now I found a guy that I'll be marrying shortly and I thank God that He knocked some sense into me. I hope that you can come to a decision that you won't regret. Good luck.

Re: BoY PrObS smeg101 July 3 2004, 20:47:53 UTC

FINALLY SOMEONE WHO AGREES WITH JASON :D:D:D good times LOL