backrubs

[jayex0x0]

Look here, creepy guys...stop it with the backrubs.

I don’t mean the kind you get from your lover (ahem, I mean LUV-AAAH) when you have had a hard day or as a prelude to some sexytime or jsut to offer some affectionate embrace. By all means, more please.
I mean that guy, who is your "friend" who gives "the best backrubs" and thinks we don't know

Comments

[monkeyfetish]

Fine. See if I give you any more backrubs...

Seriously, I'm socially awkward myself but I never got the assault someone with unwanted attention as flirtying thing.

[jayex0x0]

HA! but the thing is, if I was ever crazy enough to decline, you'd be cool about it. But agin, let's not get too hasty with the never getting Instantexpert gropes....

But I take it you've seen this kind of thing too. It's so...creepy.

[monkeyfetish]

I'll grope you any time, just no massages until after sex ;). Speaking of which, we must get together for some form of hanging out.

Yeah, I've seen it and related behaviors all too frequently. There was this one guy at GD2 who got the name "creepyguy4u" because he hovered too close to scenes and jumped in at in odd times. He took a particular liking to one girl and would come over and cuddle up to her. I think she had to use a verbal baseball bat to make him stop.

but when girls do it

[saradevil]

Creepy guy back rubs are definitely out. But I never complain about back rubs from hot girls!

Re: but when girls do it

[monkeyfetish]

Does *anyone* ever complain about backrubs from hot girls? I should hope complaining about that would be considered a crime.

[oneleggedman]

I give a lot of my female friends back rubs,some times a back rub is just a back rub.Hey are you going to make it to Dave&Busters on tues?

[jayex0x0]

Well...I tried.

I dunno. I'm hoping to, but this is a busy week.

[jayex0x0]

and in your defense, you A: arent creepy B: have always asked

[smart_ass_sub]

Yeah, this has only happened to me once. I love a good back rub as much as the next person, but really, is it too much to ASK first??
the random crotch rub by strangers always squick me out.
why don't I help *you* out dude, I just shove my fist up yer ass, k???

[jayex0x0]

it's just so weird, right? Incidentally there is a meetup guy who TOTALLY fits this description.

[smart_ass_sub]

really? happy to say I've not been massaged by this person.

[liminalia]

Re #4: If a guy acted all entitled and pouty when I told him "no, thanks", the Bitch Patrol would come out in full force. I'm sorry, I don't care how hot he is, if he can't respect personal boundaries in a public place without getting passive-aggressive, there is no way in hell I would trust him alone and naked.

So guys, take note: if I say "no thanks", it's not personal, I just need to get to the bar. Act like I'm ungrateful of your manly services and you have lost all chance of ever getting with me. And there's a good chance I'll talk to my friends about you too. it would be real nice if you just asked, "I saw you were rolling your neck like it was stiff--would you like a backrub?" That would show me you were polite, considerate, and you were checking me out--all pluses.

[jayex0x0]

true on all counts