First of all *hugs* I am SO sorry your dad passed away and you didn't get to say good bye because of the evil bitch. I hope Karma turns around and bites her in the ass BIIIG time for screwing around with you like that. That was so nasty of her and I have never met her but I already hate her. I hope she dies alone in a snow drift, the stupid whore. Sorry, that kind of shananagans pisses me off because it is so nasty and col hearted.
*hugs again* Say hi the the baby for me! *waves at the baby!*
*holds tightly* You have my thoughts and prayers. She had no right whatsoever to do what she did. it was all pure selfish jealousy on her part. I pray God comfort you and your family, she will get what she will deserve.
Blegh, that bites. I'm so sorry ((huggs)) (October 7th was the 8 year anniversary of my Dad's death)
I think after the funeral I would have to give into the b!tchiness (for my own health) and say something along the lines of "you were so busy being jealous of me and my fathers relationship and trying to keep me away, all that work and what do you have to show for it? Being completely alone. Hope you enjoy the fruits of your labor." Just simply because to hold it in would eat away at you and there is no reason you deserve that.
I think for your own mental health you should say something. It doesn't have to be a full bitchy tell off, it doesn't even have to be kind of bitchy (though honestly I would be a bit bitchy) at least say that how she handled things was hurtful and wrong and you are disappointed. I would at least say; You knew I wanted to see him, you knew I was on the way. He was on life support, you could have easily waited a few more minutes, instead you behaved badly and took away his chance to say goodbye to his child. There are no way that wasn't despicable.
If you bite your tongue and say nothing you may very well later on wish you had.
*nods* I'll play by the ear and see what happens after this weekend. My uncle T. is pretty upset that it end out like that so I wonder if anyone is going to treat me differently and say stuff to me or not. We'll see what happens then I will make my decision.
I've grown up so much since I started my livejournal in 2003. I used to be whiny, bitchy, and stuff but as I got older, I learnt how to be less naive, more tactful, and control my blunt attitude as well as my temper. :) It's amazing how much little things can change your life which is my son for example.
Thank you for your words and I will do another LJ after this weekend. take care.
Wow what a grade A F'king bitch. I'm really sorry for your loss and the way it happened. I know what it's like to lose a parent certainly when your very close, my dad died of a rare form of cancer.
Anyways, be stong you need to be at this time, don't let Ehh get to you, they say pay back is a bitch and I firmly believe that you reap what you sow. Sounds like Ehh is very jealous and a twisted itch of the first magnitude.
JediF, I am sorry about your father and I understand what you mean. I have shed few tears here and there during the week before his death but I had alot of time to pray and think about things. I am still a bit wired up with being upset but I'll manage.
Thank you for letting me know you can be there to help if I need it.
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*hugs again* Say hi the the baby for me! *waves at the baby!*
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Those Shananagans need to grow up :D
*Baby waves back and laughs*
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I think after the funeral I would have to give into the b!tchiness (for my own health) and say something along the lines of "you were so busy being jealous of me and my fathers relationship and trying to keep me away, all that work and what do you have to show for it? Being completely alone. Hope you enjoy the fruits of your labor."
Just simply because to hold it in would eat away at you and there is no reason you deserve that.
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Should I really say anything??
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It doesn't have to be a full bitchy tell off, it doesn't even have to be kind of bitchy (though honestly I would be a bit bitchy) at least say that how she handled things was hurtful and wrong and you are disappointed.
I would at least say; You knew I wanted to see him, you knew I was on the way. He was on life support, you could have easily waited a few more minutes, instead you behaved badly and took away his chance to say goodbye to his child. There are no way that wasn't despicable.
If you bite your tongue and say nothing you may very well later on wish you had.
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I've grown up so much since I started my livejournal in 2003. I used to be whiny, bitchy, and stuff but as I got older, I learnt how to be less naive, more tactful, and control my blunt attitude as well as my temper. :) It's amazing how much little things can change your life which is my son for example.
Thank you for your words and I will do another LJ after this weekend. take care.
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Anyways, be stong you need to be at this time, don't let Ehh get to you, they say pay back is a bitch and I firmly believe that you reap what you sow. Sounds like Ehh is very jealous and a twisted itch of the first magnitude.
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:) that made me smile
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Thank you for letting me know you can be there to help if I need it.
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