This is probably the best way you could have handled it. No one likes being a dick, but at least you were honest. A lesser man would have at least tried to get some nookie out of the deal before informing the poor girl that he didn't see a serious relationship in the future.
I was once told, "you should have sex because you want to, not because you can." I think that's true. You probably hurt her a bit, but had you done anything differently, you would have destroyed her. She also might have suspected your feelings, judging by the way she phrased it.
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