It's been a while, so to prevent anyone from going into shock, I'll be brief...

[jazzvandoren]

My acquantance Carmen dropped me a line the other day. Carmen - for those who don't know - is the hot little Cuban chick that I saw for about a month back in Miami (circa December 2002). She's the one who ended up having a crush on Chris (my roommate) and left me for him. Chris is also the one who two and a half years later stole our buddy Brian

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[lea724]

At what point does a person decide to cast fate to the wind, say screw the consequences - be it lost friendships, broken hearts, or a happily ever after ending - and finally put your own desire for happiness in front of your sense of morals and ethics?

Within reason, I think you should always put your own desire for happiness above all else.

[jazzvandoren]

But what about when it potentially will impose on someone else's happiness?

[lea724]

I guess the key word is "potentially." It's hard to give a good opinion about what you should do when I know so little of the facts. Care to share? :)

[jazzvandoren]

Not on LJ, given that ALL of the parties who are in anyway involved in the innermost part of the problem, are also on LJ. But yeah, I'd love to have someone to talk to about it...

[fyre_pixie_chic]

At what point does a person decide to cast fate to the wind, say screw the consequences - be it lost friendships, broken hearts, or a happily ever after ending - and finally put your own desire for happiness in front of your sense of morals and ethics?

that happend when i was about 15. maybe 14? iunno, pretty young.

I've never been on this side of this wall

make this side of the wall a good place. otherwise, you'll just be driven mad.

[jazzvandoren]

I drove to mad last night when hunting Ocala for Robyn.

[hugs__not_drugs]

God, i hate people.
either way, most people DON'T care about other people's feelings for the most part.
and when you do find someone who puts your feelings in front of their's.. well, you should really try to keep that person in your life.

thats the point your trying to emphasize, right?

[jazzvandoren]

Not really love. Since I don't want you shitting a brick, and I don't want to post the details, I'll fill you in when I respond to the personal e-mail that I see sitting in my inbox - which I have been waiting til the end to read. (Save the best for last)