Love Advice: (1/D) * 36 = X

[jdc2see]

'I LOVE YOU': The Importance Of Not Telling Her Too Soon
-by Luigi Di Serio, edited by Aaron S.Bayley
web linkYou're probably asking yourself, "But what if I really DO love her?" To that, I offer some simple yet sound advice: DON'T TELL HER!!! Talk is cheap, but actions are not. Don't tell her, show her, by being interested in her. Give her spurts

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[jdc2see]

Yes, Luigi's advice is dripping with cynicism, especially the last line. I cringe at the thought that there are guys who actually apply it. It's a pretty warped definition of love that reduces its expression to a mathematical equation. There's a word for it: Manipulation.

I'm with you. I'm going to toss this advice. I don't want a relationship based on manipulation. I want one based on honesty and respect.

By the way, I liked your thoughts on "Community, not individualism, in Philippians, I John, and Colossians."