I like people for other reasons but the religious ones tend to like me for some reason...me having the "bad for them" image i suppose. never has worked out though
#1 Personality [most important and makes/breaks a person to me] #2 Looks [C'mon, we can't just bang a hole in the wall, can we?] #3 Intelligence [for conversations and such](and I will go on ahead and mention ashley as well) #4 Trust [because everyone needs someone reliable and trustworthy] #5 Spontaneity [so that there's never a dull moment... or awkward silences]
1. Intelligence (same reason as anyone else, let's not be redundant) 2. Religion (because I pretty much can't handle "mega-hyper-ultra-religious" people in general and I usually tend to bug them too) 3. Passion (mostly in reference to sexual things, in all honesty, but it's good in all aspects of life and living) 4. Personality (because it's vague and I probably won't be able to think of 5) 5. Similar interests (because I dunno, I tend to like people who have the same interests as me)
1. Intelligence. If you can't hold a conversation, or if I say Hemingway and they go "big words suck" I wouldn't want to be friends with them anyway. 2. Artistic. I want to be with someone creative, whether it is musically, artistically, literary, or otherwise. I'm a crazy mood-swingin' writer, so I need someone who can't only deal with that, but understand it. 3. Honest/Communication/Maturity. I guess it's cheating putting three things in at #3, but I beleive they all go hand in hand. If you're not emotionally mature, you don't communicate and you lie, which leads to unresolved issues which leads to cheating and messy breakups. WHICH ARE AWESOME!!! 4. Sensitivity/Passion. I can't date someone who's a total stone on the inside. Bleh. 5. I guess I should put looks in so people don't call me a liar. Although my idea of attractive seems RADICALLY different than everyone else's at times. So as long as she's attractive to ME.
1. Strangly, the most important factor that I've been looking for lately is: Can/does she feel as strongly about me as I can/do feel about her? I don't know what word I could use... empathy? I don't want to be rebound guy, or there just for amusment. I want to be cared about in return for caring
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No, I read that part wrong. I thought you said you didn't like the super-religious
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#2 Looks [C'mon, we can't just bang a hole in the wall, can we?]
#3 Intelligence [for conversations and such](and I will go on ahead and mention ashley as well)
#4 Trust [because everyone needs someone reliable and trustworthy]
#5 Spontaneity [so that there's never a dull moment... or awkward silences]
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2. Religion (because I pretty much can't handle "mega-hyper-ultra-religious" people in general and I usually tend to bug them too)
3. Passion (mostly in reference to sexual things, in all honesty, but it's good in all aspects of life and living)
4. Personality (because it's vague and I probably won't be able to think of 5)
5. Similar interests (because I dunno, I tend to like people who have the same interests as me)
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1. Intelligence. If you can't hold a conversation, or if I say Hemingway and they go "big words suck" I wouldn't want to be friends with them anyway.
2. Artistic. I want to be with someone creative, whether it is musically, artistically, literary, or otherwise. I'm a crazy mood-swingin' writer, so I need someone who can't only deal with that, but understand it.
3. Honest/Communication/Maturity. I guess it's cheating putting three things in at #3, but I beleive they all go hand in hand. If you're not emotionally mature, you don't communicate and you lie, which leads to unresolved issues which leads to cheating and messy breakups. WHICH ARE AWESOME!!!
4. Sensitivity/Passion. I can't date someone who's a total stone on the inside. Bleh.
5. I guess I should put looks in so people don't call me a liar. Although my idea of attractive seems RADICALLY different than everyone else's at times. So as long as she's attractive to ME.
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