Your first problem is that you are trying to make everyone else happy, and you shouldn't be... you need to find the person you want to be and work to that. Don't worry if other people like it or don't like it... and maybe being a nice considerate person isn't who you need to be anyway... I can't stress enough that the more you try to make things happen, the more you will be disappointed. In life, we are given choices, and our lives evolve from those choices we make, if you have made a choice then you need to sit back and see where it takes you without trying to rush everything into action. Everything happens for a reason. There is one perfect person out there for everyone, and you may have to go through a lot to find them, but that makes the rewards all that much better. You are young and becoming frustrated with what you think everyone else has that you wish you did, but this is not true. Trust me. All of your friends that seem to have "love" really probably don't... no one really knows what love is specifically or if they have found
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You tell you who you should be and who you are. It doesn't seem that anyone else really gives a shit about that unless they're trying to change you. Been there, done that, not going back.
I just figured you wanted to be left alone last night, but hell I am usually wrong when it comes to reading other people. I know when I get quiet like that, I don't want anyone to even look at me, let alone try to talk to me. But you aren't me, and I'm fucking crazy anyway.
Trying to give the people what they want is a good way to drive yourself insane. You can't make everyone happy.
So, you want other people to tell you who you are and who you should be? Well, this is what I have to say about all of that and you can take it or leave it
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Kevvy, what is this all about? I just read this and...no. You need to be who YOU are, that's it. If other people don't like it, well you know what? Fuck em. They're not worth your time and any effort that would go into being friends with them. Be yourself. I will love you no matter what. You should know that. You my boo yo. heh. You're a really good friend and you mean a whole heck of a lot to me. I like you just the way that you are kiddo, please don't change for anyone. Just be yourself. And you better hang out with me tons since you are home for the summer, or I am going to be piiiiiisssseeedddd. But seriously, just be yourself, and try to love yourself by doing that. Being somebody else, and being a fake, just to appease someone else isn't going to make you happy in the long run. Trust me, I know, I tried that game. It doesn't work out. You just have to be yourself and be comfortable in your own skin and you know what? The peoples flock to you. A lot of people can tell and geniune person from a fake. JUST BE YOURSELF! hehe.
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I just figured you wanted to be left alone last night, but hell I am usually wrong when it comes to reading other people. I know when I get quiet like that, I don't want anyone to even look at me, let alone try to talk to me. But you aren't me, and I'm fucking crazy anyway.
Trying to give the people what they want is a good way to drive yourself insane. You can't make everyone happy.
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