I know the right and smart thing to do would just be ignore it

[jecca_o9]

I know that. But I can't help it. She brought it out to the public and her flist--instead of just messaging me (like any mature, civilized human being would do), and that fucking annoys the hell out of me. So, go ahead, flist and all the people who've added me. Think what you will.

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[r_hr_maniac]

I've just read te whole exchange between the two of you on her journal. I think I got a bit sick. I didn't get her at all. What she did was all wrong, imo and...I mean, I'm on her flist and I'm on yours and there are probably more friends you've got both, right? Isn't that just downright inconsiderate?
When I was adding her I thought we were both "Jongkey stans", having a good time in the fandom...now I'm actually getting creeped out. I'm thinking of the best way to cut her without seeming like a total bitch.

[jecca_o9]

I'm not even on her flist, which is why it annoys me more. If I didn't ask her about why she quit jongkeyaday, I'd have never found out that she felt like that. I'd have never seen that entry.
Ugh, this is such a mess, I hope you're not planning on cutting her because of these exchanges--I woudn't want this mess to ruin other people's online relationships.

[r_hr_maniac]

These exchanges are a part of it, probably? Idk if those posts I read that she'd posted before this one are visible to other people than her friends but...she really does creep me out a little bit. I don't want to sound harsh or anything, but it's like Jongkey is her whole life. That's how I see it, I know it sounds absurd but yeah, you'd have to read the posts to understand, I guess. And she takes everything in fandom a bit too seriously and I don't think I can take that. I could just stop reading her entries and don't cut her but...that would make no sense. So don't worry, you're not ruining anything. I'll prolly be doing a friends cut soon, anyway. (I need to get rid of those almost dead journals for the sake of my info page xD )