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jedicandii

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Mar 11, 2006 15:44

Okay, I've officially decided that I don't understand males. My ex just called me not too long ago because he wanted to see how I'm doing. He called my last week, and then this week for the same reason. He doesn't want to be with me, and he has another girlfriend, yet he still calls me to see how I'm doing. He seems genuinely interested in what ( Read more... )

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don3172 March 11 2006, 21:01:36 UTC

Forgive me for being blunt, but why are you talking to him? He traded you in for a "better" model. He lost the right to ask about your life.

jedicandii March 11 2006, 21:10:27 UTC

Because I can't just kick him out of my life. He was a part of it, in a big way, for much too long to be able to do that. Maybe it's dumb, but it's how I feel.

don3172 March 11 2006, 21:15:37 UTC

OK, but be careful. He might be testing the waters to see about getting back together with you if things go south with the new chick. And I think that would be a mistake on your part. He dropped you once for someone else; he would do it again.

jedicandii March 11 2006, 21:34:43 UTC

Don't worry, I'll be careful. And if he does happen to try to get back together with me, I sure won't take him back right away, if at all. I'd make him prove to me that he was really sorry, and I wouldn't make it easy for him, that's for sure.

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sprook March 11 2006, 21:42:58 UTC

Men are stupid. You just can't figure them out. Ha. Same thing with one of my dude pals. Retarded.

don3172 March 12 2006, 03:21:42 UTC

It's not us that makes us retarded, Brooke, it you and your enormous (.Y.)

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sprook March 12 2006, 03:38:30 UTC

Are you referring to my awesome boobies Don?

don3172 March 12 2006, 04:24:30 UTC

Yes, ma'am. If you didn't have those, men wouldn't act like retards around you.

odnabspiznorka March 12 2006, 00:17:23 UTC

I've been asked by him on several different occasions, in high school, AFTER breaking up with me, if I would date him. I told him repeatedly no, so I'm used to just giving him no nonsense if he starts being stupidly male again. I don't know Candace...even if both me and him were single, and he proved to me(which wouldn't be easy, like you said) I don't know if I would go back. I know too many other good and better guys to date.

jedicandii March 12 2006, 03:27:28 UTC

Yeah, I'm not sure if I would or not. I think my problem right now is that I haven't found any better guys, at least not ones that aren't taken, or that I haven't known for a long time, and I could never think about dating them.

don3172 March 12 2006, 06:25:36 UTC

Christ on a pogo stick, Candace, this isn't the 1920s; you don't need to get married by the time you're 21. You've been broken up with GI Joe for 2 freakin' weeks. Give it some time before you decide Eric is starting to look good.

jedicandii March 12 2006, 15:21:52 UTC

I know that I don't have to get married by the time I'm 21. I would have a serious problem if I did, considering the fact that I would have less than 24 hours if I did. I was simply stating why I thought I was feeling this way. And the fact that he's found someone "better" isn't really helping that feeling, believe me.

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