130; yes, yes, i know...

[jeh_jeh]

...i'm meant to be on hiatus. but, it's a sunday night, i have no work to do and i need to rant! i'm having friend issues again...

she pours her heart out to me and tells me how sad she is that she feels that she has to go through life on her own, and that she wishes it hadn't worked out like this but that it just has. she wishes she could stop

Comments

[bluewinged_e]

You sound like a pretty awesome friend to me, sounds like you're doing everything you're supposed to do when you're her friend.
If she can't appreciate that then I guess you could say it's her problem, but like you say it's hard to walk away from your friends.
I don't really know what advice to give you other than keep on being a good friend. Gah, sounds cheesy, but I don't really have anything better to say...

[jeh_jeh]

thanks, eli. it's just so hard when i'm being blamed for everything, but it is reassuring to know that no one else thinks i'm making massive mistakes!

thanks for commenting. :] xoxo.

Not Alone

[susanacts]

You're not alone with the friendship issues. So many of them want to place blame on us (I've been there too), and then make us change. It's something they feel because they are insecure, not us. Yet we bear the brunt of their desires, anger, and frustrations. It's not fair. Making us change our selves isn't going to change anything for them for the better anyway.

If your friends treat you like crap because they expect you to change, and they can keep being the same, you know then that it's time to go. I have lost a ton of friends recently. The most recent loss was in August. I just got to the point where I couldn't take anymore trauma. It was too much, so I left.

This is just me though. Do what you need to do for you. And I'm sending a hug or two your way...(Hugs).