I couldn't imagine a life without Jeni.

[jeni_mama]

I was posting something in breastfeeding and this lady left a comment on my entry, and I decided to check her lj out and found something totally heartwretching on her lj. I cannot imagine losing a child. I have a several friends who have lost their babies. I remember one of my friends lost her first son because he was pre-mature baby. He was born too early, and

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[megansetsfire]

In the early 1990's a family member of mine lost her first daughter (she has two boys presently). She is a teacher, and mid way through her pregnancy a bad flu was going around the school -- I guess she caught the flu and it affected her unborn child. I am unsure if there was a miscarriage or if the child was still-born, but none the less she was lost. Someone gave my counsin a beautiful white gown (probably designed for a Christening) for her child to wear when burried, but my counsil instead gave this gown to my mom to give to me for my dolls. My mom told me that I couldn't have it, and since the it has been tucked away with other precious items that my mom has saved over the years

[jeni_mama]

Yeah, I've known a lot of people who have lost, before birth, during birth or after birth. That's why I was so scared the entire time I was pregnant...having to be so careful 24/7. I even wore flat shoes, so I wouldn't fall down 'cause I'm totally clumsy person.

When I agreed to have an abortion 'cause my mom didn't want me to be pregnant, and on that day I was supposed to go in, I cried all night, and all morning on that day. I was grieving. That was when I realized I really really couldn't go ahead with an abortion. So I told my mom that I couldn't do it.

Now that I have finally met Jennifer, I couldn't really imagine what my life would've been like without her.