A CRY FOR HELP

Nov 09, 2004 13:00

Ok Im going to use this to vent but im also opening it to a BIG discusion. ok first off the past couple days Ive only gone to school and work basicly. Thank Goodness I am getting better so today I actually got to go to the gym..WOOHOO long tiring work out=) felt great! Ok so the past two nights have been TOTALLY strange. Sunday night I decided to ( Read more... )

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girl_in_a_dream November 9 2004, 10:20:46 UTC
I guess you have to ask him if he knows for sure he will only marry a girl that is the same religion as him, because if that is the case, and you know you are meant to be catholic.. its time to move on.

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hiiii __bottle__ November 9 2004, 10:22:19 UTC
i'm not a christian, nor do i believe in the christian god. well i don't believe in any one god. but that's besides teh point. the only thing i can really tell you do is not worry about diaper dan and move on. if religion is giong to get in teh way of what could of been a badass relationship that i would forever be jealous of. then don't try to make it happen. there's other fish in the sea, you just haven't used the right bait yet. in time you'll hook a good one. and when that comes, i'll go back to being completely jealous of your successful catch.
till then, pat likes chocolate, and he poops alot.

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kagedws6 November 9 2004, 10:48:01 UTC
you need to have a serious talk with him and ask him if he thinks he can go any further into the relationship and if theres any way yall can work this out. if hes willing to stay in the long run and not ashamed to let his family know that hes dating someone thats a branch of his own but not the exact same one (your even showing interest by going with him to church and his family should see that and realize theres no big deal) but if hes going to try and hide you from his family or is going to let his family's opinion of you affect his own decisions then your better off trying to find someone who can appreciate you for you

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Yo fool! anonymous November 9 2004, 16:06:34 UTC
I used to a nonbeliever but the past three years I've started becoming a Buddhist. I don't worship a god so I don't consider Buddhism a religion. Its more a way of life an ideology. Thats beside the point. I think that Dan's family is being selfish and they should be happy that he has met such a great girl that would be willing to attend their church. This shows you are open minded and have a willing to make changes. They should know you for who you are and not what you believe in. They just haven't met the real you. They are just making judgments based solely on your religion. I also think that people should make their judgments based upon other peoples morals not their religion. But hey thats just me and Christians confuse the hell out of me sometimes. If he is going to hide you from his family you should just leave him. I would definitely date you and allow my family to meet you but thats me.

Good Luck,
-Dan

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Re: Yo fool! jenn_n_juice19 November 9 2004, 16:36:48 UTC
hi there Dan.....do i know you lol just wondering

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Re: Yo fool! anonymous November 9 2004, 17:23:37 UTC
Yeah its me Daniel Stiltner

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meboe November 9 2004, 16:38:50 UTC
I'm a Christian. Can't really categorize us into 1 group. So many different types of Christians and different beliefs.
As for the 21 year old dude. I sure as hell wouldn't let any family member tell me who I can and can't date.

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