this might be a weird question...but is it scary? I know Martin wants to have kids soon after we get married, and I do too, but i'm kind of scared. It seems super freaky/alien invasion - even if it feels like a kid - i mean, you have a PERSON inside you. Seems so so weird!! Do you get used to that?
I won't lie to you, it is scary, weird, alien, akward and all that. But it is also amazing, humbling, comforting and empowering. I feel like I have this amazing ability to carry this person and I am here to protect him. I don't know how else to explain it. I don't think I'll ever get used to it. You don't know when he's going to kick, it just happens. you don't know when he's going to have the hiccups, you just feel it. I guess that's the strangest part. It feels odd but it also bonds you. Now when I sing to him or talk to him, he kicks and moves at the sound of my voice. Also to Dave's voice. It's different for everyone, and no one can explain it, it's just one of those things. Don't be scared, be excited. I think I'm more afraid of actually being a parent.
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I don't know how else to explain it. I don't think I'll ever get used to it. You don't know when he's going to kick, it just happens. you don't know when he's going to have the hiccups, you just feel it. I guess that's the strangest part. It feels odd but it also bonds you. Now when I sing to him or talk to him, he kicks and moves at the sound of my voice. Also to Dave's voice. It's different for everyone, and no one can explain it, it's just one of those things. Don't be scared, be excited. I think I'm more afraid of actually being a parent.
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