Facebook Tears?

[jennypotts6907]

I'm so teary the last few days!  I found one of the world's coolest people I've ever met on Facebook and I have no idea why it is so emotional for me ebcause it's not like we were best friends or anything.  I think I aspired to be like her.  So confident and outgoing and intelligent and motivated.  I think I have become more like that.  I saw that

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[ladycorbeau]

Most people find the first year of marriage more difficult than imagined.

Luke and I have had problems with depression in the past. I know what's it's like to live with a depressed spouse.

"I can't help that I have a great job and work environment and that my car isn't trashed and that I have friends and that I'm not overweight and that I have taken the initiative to get medicated so that my depression is somewhat controlled."

Most of the stuff in that sentence you made happen. Don't forget that. Until your husband wants to make those things happen himself, they won't.

For example, Luke was upset that when he lost his job that he couldn't find a good paying job. Yes he was depressed and upset, but eventually he realized that he'd have to do something about it. That's why he enrolled in community college.

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[jennypotts6907]

You are so right on. You should go into psychology. That's all basically what my shrink told me yesterday. :) Glad to know I'm not the only one.