I refuse

[jess0121]

this has always pretty much been my stand on the situation.. but as time goes on it becoems even more so.. unlike many (despite how easy it is to be like this) I refuse to have my self worth based upon wheather I have a boyfriend or not or how many numbers I got while out on a friday night... I refuse to give in to such mindsets.. I'd rather base

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[anonymous]

you're neither smarter nor better off using your pant size to determine your worth. In fact, that's disgusting and I can't believe you keep on with such bullshit.

Re: um

[jess0121]

no.. not at all.. it was a joke.. probably in bad taste... i was merely trying to emphasize how dumb all of those things were...

Re: um

[redfangs]

wow someone is mr. cranky today huh!! ::pinches cheek:: it will be ok sugar =P

Re: um

[jess0121]

yess all good in the hood...

[redfangs]

Hi!!! If people are judging others like that then they are the ones with problem. Why does everyone have to care about such things. A true friend won't even care if someone is a leper or a toothless bum name Gus. You are not weak willed and it shows and that is awesome. Hurray for Jess!!!!! =)

[jess0121]

horray for me!!! thanks man.. I'm not really upset at all about anything or anything like that.. It was just a passsing comment that went through my mind because many people that I know judge the success of a weekend by if I met a guy.. and I'm like that's rediculous.. so just a passing thought that i rambled on about as I am doing here... sigh.. and i'll stop rambling now.. stop.

How's playing Mr. apartment owner and what not? having a great time i suppose!!!!

[cbeans16]

i agree with you... but alas, sometimes it is easier to "measure" your self worth by the response of others as opposed to the response of yourself... if that makes any sense