Comments | jessgirl_123: update-o

jessgirl_123

update-o

Aug 03, 2006 00:46

Me and Mike are talking again! Aaaagh its so good ( Read more... )

Comments 4

falleneagleftw August 4 2006, 03:54:26 UTC

Jessica all you can do is to make sure you remain only friends. Maybe your parents are right. Maybe they're not. Who knows. All that matters is you two being able to be adults about everything. Just know that when a guy loses someone most of the time guys tend to say whatever it takes to get a girl to come back to them. So just be careful and don't let your emotions get the best of you. Trust in God. Nothing else can really be said. I hope you two are capable of being friends. Good luck.

dazzyl927 August 7 2006, 18:37:23 UTC

I was slightly confused to see that Mike took you to the drive-in Saturday cuz I was like "Didn't they break up!?" Of course, I couldn't talk to you about it with him there. That just seems like kind of a "romantic" get-together rather than just a plutonic one. I dunno though...I'm not an expert on love. I'm just curious...are you guys just friends or are you thinking of getting back together? You've got to decide and make that clear to him.

I agree that the stalking packet from your Mom was a little much though.

jessgirl_123 August 9 2006, 17:32:03 UTC

We're friends, and we could be more in awhile, but we're going to be friends first since we didn't do that last time. When I first met him, we just jumped right into a relationship and I feel that we didn't get to build a good friendship, so we're trying to do that now though I am planning to get back together with him as long as he stays away from the behavior and rut that he was stuck in that led us to breaking up.

falleneagleftw August 9 2006, 23:02:15 UTC

Jessica, you do realize that if you two get together and you have problems again...and you do have to end it again then that is it? Because even with the built friendship, that doesn't mean much than the two of you enabling yourselves to allow for more hurt the second time around. I've been around enough people who tried to go for a second round of dating, after trying to be just friends and it ended just like the first time. The waters are only going to get rougher from the point you decide to try a relationship with him again. Don't rush into anything. I'm all for love and such, but I don't want you ending up hurting more later. Let God decide. Whatever happens, happens. If it's meant to be it'll happen on its own. I wish you the best of luck.