Comments | jessgirl_123: Jessica's thought process...again.

jessgirl_123

Jessica's thought process...again.

Aug 11, 2007 02:37

(I'm still trying to work through breaking up with Mike and thought looking at articles might help. I tried to make this whole thing one of those special lines so nobody has to read the post if they don't want to, but I can't get it to work. I'm sorry, guys. This is an article I found online written by a guy named Mike, why does every guy have to ( Read more... )

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betani August 12 2007, 03:38:23 UTC

jess, quite honestly (and i know this is going to sound rough) he had you stuck in an emotionally abusive relationship. he hurt you, then made you pity him and feel guilty, like you had done something wrong (which you haven't!) and sucked you back in for more. those are CLASSIC signs of an abusive relationship others also include him slowly but surely limiting contact between you and your friends. whether he conciously intended it or not, that's what happened. if you were on the outside looking in you would NEVER tell the victim in a relationship like that to care for and comfort the counterpart after the fact, and that is not what you should be doing either ( ... )