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[jetstobrazil]

Sometime in 2001, after my grandfather passed away, it was decided my grandmother would come and live with us. We decided we would put an addition of a second larger master bedroom and bathroom on the rear of the house, which was to become my parents. The room that was theirs would become mine, and my old room would now belong to my grandmother

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[staremotions]

I'm really sorry for your loss. I want to say I know how you feel, but I try to stay away from the term because I can't know how YOU feel. Every experience is different. I only know how I felt when my grandmother and grandfathers passed. One of my grandfathers passed just a few months ago. I went to see him and honestly regret it. He died of cancer and was so skinny and out of it that it scared me...he only remembered who I was from time to time the day I saw him and though it wasn't his fault at all, it hurt me. I wish I could just remember him how he was, but now when I think of him, the only memory that creeps to mind is me holding his hand while he faded in and out of conciousness. No matter what, though, when someone dies, people always think of things they should have done differently. All I can say is, try not to. It's really a losing battle. The sadness you feel is proof that you loved her and were loved by her...and that's what matters most, don't you think?

Once again, sorry...

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[gator7870]

In my best British accent:

It's really laughable when a chap gets on the lift and pushes the button that is already lit.

[dehydrated]

i haven't had internet access or i would've read this and responded sooner: i'm sorry about your grandmother. it's hard to grow up and realize more and more what losing someone can mean. *hugs*