JOHN CHARLES GONZALES-STANLEY
February 12, 1964 -January 18, 2006
On
January 18, 2006, Chuck, 41, died peacefully with his beloved Mother
and Father by his side at their home in Herndon, Virginia. He is
preceded in his death by his maternal grandparents, Mary and John
Gonzales; and his paternal grandparents, Elsie and James Stanley. He is
survived by his parents, Diane and David Stanley, Herndon, VA; two
brothers, David, of Johnstown, PA, and Todd, of Herndon, VA; three
nieces Amanda, Emily, and Mary; and one nephew, Austin. Numerous aunts,
uncles, and cousins also survive him. Chuck was raised in Herndon. He
graduated from Herndon High School Class of 1982 and attended
Shenandoah Conservatory. He lived in the Northern Virginia area his
entire life. Chuck was an actor and costume designer at the Lazy Susan
Dinner Theatre in Woodbridge, VA, for the last nineteen years beginning
with Fiddler on the Roof in 1987. For eight of those years, he
performed with his dearest life-long friend, Steven Watkins, of New
York, NY, doing such shows as The Sound of Music, Agatha Christie's The
Unexpected Guest, The Pirates of Penzance and Dames at Sea. His other
roles at the Theatre included technical operator, server, bartender,
and box office assistant; however, he was never happier than when he
was performing. Other favorite shows of Chuck's include: Guys and
Dolls, Seven Brides for Seven Brothers, Damn Yankees, Shenandoah, and
State Fair. Chuck's proudest moments as a designer were the National
Day of Reconciliation (for comedian Travalena) where he recreated the
Vietnam Soldiers and Nurses Memorials, the New York Spellbound
Theatreworks production of HAIR, and a costume for the 13th Annual
Broadway Bares (AE/BFA) production. Away from his theatre life, Chuck
worked as a leasing agent at several apartment and senior living
complexes in the Northern Virginia area where he also made many
friends. He spent his quiet time writing original plays, listening to
music, watching movies, and writing in his journals. Chuck will be
greatly missed by his family, his Theatre family, and his many, many
friends. His Memorial Service will be held at MOUNTCASTLE FUNERAL HOME,
4143 Dale Boulevard, Dale City, VA, on Monday, January 23, 2006 at 1
p.m., with interment at Woodbine Baptist Church Cemetery. A Celebration
of Chuck's Life will immediately follow at the Lazy Susan Dinner
Theatre. Donations may also be made in Chuck's name to Hospice of
Northern Virginia, 9300 Lee Highway, Fairfax, VA 22031.