This morning

[jewels1965]

I woke up to the remnants of a shared life scattered on the floor. Putting aside his items to box up to be picked up or dropped off later. My belongings again to be cleaned and replaced upon shelves once shared by two. Feeling melancholy today with a few tears being shed, but we all have our up days and down.. this one appears to be forming into

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[la_romantique]

*hugs* Jewels, I can only imagine how hard it is for you at this time. I guess it's hard to seperate things into "his" piles and "my" piles when it all used to be "our" pile.

Sometimes I look around me and wonder why we all go through the hassle of relationships at all with the opposite sex. But then I see people who it all works for - and their happiness shines through. And then I know why it is we suffer through the hard times to make it through so our happiness shines too.

But I don't think happiness can only shine because of a happy life with a partner. Sometimes we find ourselves alone and that is OK too. Happiness can be found in all ways. If we are willing to look for it.

It is a beautiful day, I hope you enjoy it.
xxx

[collar_n_chains]

Hugs hun. Thinking of you. Wish I knew what to say to make it easier. Just know you are not alone. But you already knew that. Hugsssssssss.

[similicious]

Was thinking of you yesterday, having recently been through all of that myself. The melancholy is overwhelming sometimes, but then oftentimes too it becomes your favoured companion. The problem with melancholy is that it can rob you of your feelings and the trick to avoid becoming vaccuous with what's happening is to continue feeling.

So cry, rage, dispair, all you like, and keep feeling the myriad of feelings that goes with what our men have done because if we hold on to being stoic too much, we risk sharing our lives with melancholy for a long time.

(hugs) you know we love you Jewels xxxx

[tawana]

I dont have words for you right now....because i think this is harder than i can imagine. Just know you can always find me xxxxx

[bettisima]

Dearest Jewels,

I have been very remiss in checking up on those people I care for, who are so far away. There are no words, that can make the feelings any better. Sadly, it is something that needs to be processed. I wish I could be there, to offer you hugs, or just share a nice bottle of red and ride the emotions as they happen.

Always know I am sending positive thoughts your way.