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Mary Karr; Cherry
because only Mary Karr can make a prepubescent suicide attempt lolzy:
Maybe it was Keats - “Darkling, I listen, for a long while / I Have been half in love with easeful death…” - that got you first. You memorize it, along with Hamlet’s hand-wringing suicide speech and more than a few nasty bits by Sylvia Plath. You read Camus’s play Caligula where the mad emperor so torments his senators that they wind up stabbing him in the face while he screams, “I’m still alive.” On the unused black upright, you teach yourself to read music-one note at a time - solely in order to play the same morbid Chopin prelude over and over till everyone in the house threatens to move out unless you stop.
You are waving hope off like a stinging wasp.
You sit on your bedroom floor and unshelf another well-thumbed novel. A brilliant girl your age in a mental institution invents a magical world of gods and monsters. Then she keeps opening her veins the long way. You know you could never cut yourself. You can’t even stick your finger with a pin, much less take up a razor. Still there’s some seduction to the idea, a silky feel that it draws over you.
You spend a whole night writing an elaborate suicide note, in which you list every minor gripe and oversight. Lecia, you shouldn’t have hit me over that chicken pot pie. Clarice, I was a good pal to you, and you were a turd. John Cleary, no grinning and large-breasted pom-pom shaker could reveal the high-minded wisdoms I truck in. And the givers of athletic prizes. And the designers of children’s shoes. Before long, you’ve worked up to your parents, who are blind to the spit you feel yourself to be writhing on. Just thinking how bad they’ll feel reading this note makes you cry, but you keep writing, letting big tears splash the page so they’ll know how bad you felt.
Anacin from a brand new bottle get counted out till you reach one hundred - “one hundred bitter wishes,” the poet Craig Raine will write someday of another girl.
Thus readied, you step into this puddle of dress-the closet’s only black one - and pull it over your legs and up waist high. It’s satin-back crepe and slides over your skin like water, but too small so you have to struggle to get the zipper up. It’s short enough to pass for a shirt, and your hands hang down too long from the sleeves like a chimp’s.
You wash the pills down three and four at a time, but only get as far as ten or twelve before the melted pill taste is too bitter to stand. So you mash some with the spoon back, mix the powder in orange juice, hold your nose. Still the bitterness starts a gag. And since discomfort is not now (nor ever will be) your long suit (and since it’s less death than family attention you crave), you decide you’ve swallowed enough, skinny as you are.
Having cried yourself quiet, you now lie down in the bed and cross hands over your chest and arrange the skirt so your underpants aren’t gaping out at everybody. In this pose, you wait to die.
Then comes the first sliver of fear, a sharp and shining itch of it from the prospect of snuffing out. If you don’t exist, who will impart your tremendous insights, write the great poems you design in your head that never see paper? You lie there and listen to the neighbor dog yip-yipping, cars idling by.
Mr. Lawrence is digging in the side yard. He shouts to his wife, This deep enough? And she says deeper, it’s rose bushes. You want to fling open your window and shout, Show some respect! I’m killing myself here. But they keep remarking on color and fullness of bloom.
Socrates never had this insignificant crap to listen to after he took the hemlock… You’re nowhere near dead - just wicked queasy, like that time deep sea fishing…
You pad through the house looking for an audience. …By the time your mother walks in less than an hour later, you’re kneeling on the cold floor tiles emptying the emptiness from your stomach into the small white emptiness of the wastebasket in your room. She helps you to the bathroom, dampens a washcloth to drape around your neck. You poor little duck she says, rubbing your back. You must have eaten something bad, she says. I’m throwing that old potato salad out, she says, and those shrimp your daddy brought home.
Bent over, sick and ashamed, you feel like the worst sort of fool.
When the heaves pass, Mother takes your angular self onto her lap in the ebony rocker. Your feet hang over the arms on one side. Poor poor you, she says. Your head lolls over her shoulder, your nose near the source of the Shalimar cloud that drifts around her - a smell of rose attar in oil. She says, You’re never too big to rock, but you’ll appreciate it, I know, if I leave off singing to you. Once when you wake up she asks what are you doing in that old dress, and you say seeing if it fits. And she says, That would be a negatory.
When Daddy comes in, he carries you to bed. Is there anything you feel like you could eat, Pokey? Anything at all?
All you can imagine putting in your mouth is a cold plum, one with really tight skin on the outside but gum-shocking sweetness inside. And he and your mother discuss where he might find some this late in the season. Mother says hell I don’t know. Further north, I’d guess.
The next morning, you wake up in your bed and sit up. Mother says, Pete, I think she’s up. He hollers in, You ready for breakfast, Pokey. Then he comes in grinning, still in his work clothes from the night before. He’s holding a farm bushel. The plums he empties onto the bed river toward you through folds in the quilt. If you stacked them up, they’d fill the deepest bin at the Piggly Wiggly.
Damned if I didn’t get the urge to drive to Arkansas last night, he says.
Your mother stands behind him saying he’s pure USDA crazy.
Fort Smith, Arkansas. Found a roadside stand out there with a feller selling plums. And I says, Buddy, I got a little girl sick back in Texas. She’s got a hanker for plums and ain’t nothing else gonna do.
..It’s when you sink your teeth into the plum that you make a promise. The skin is still warm from riding in the sun in Daddy’s truck, and the nectar runs down your chin.
And you snap out of it. Or are snapped out of it. Never again will you lay a hand against yourself, not so long as there are plums to eat and somebody - anybody - who gives enough of a damn to haul them to you. So long as you bear the least nibblet of love for any other creature in this dark world, though in love portions are never stingy. There are no smidgens or pinches, only rolling abundance. That’s how you acquire the resolution for survival that the coming years are about to demand. You don’t earn it. It’s given.
Mary Karr; Cherry
because only Mary Karr can make a prepubescent suicide attempt lolzy:
Maybe it was Keats - “Darkling, I listen, for a long while / I Have been half in love with easeful death…” - that got you first. You memorize it, along with Hamlet’s hand-wringing suicide speech and more than a few nasty bits by Sylvia Plath. You read Camus’s play Caligula where the mad emperor so torments his senators that they wind up stabbing him in the face while he screams, “I’m still alive.” On the unused black upright, you teach yourself to read music-one note at a time - solely in order to play the same morbid Chopin prelude over and over till everyone in the house threatens to move out unless you stop.
You are waving hope off like a stinging wasp.
You sit on your bedroom floor and unshelf another well-thumbed novel. A brilliant girl your age in a mental institution invents a magical world of gods and monsters. Then she keeps opening her veins the long way. You know you could never cut yourself. You can’t even stick your finger with a pin, much less take up a razor. Still there’s some seduction to the idea, a silky feel that it draws over you.
You spend a whole night writing an elaborate suicide note, in which you list every minor gripe and oversight. Lecia, you shouldn’t have hit me over that chicken pot pie. Clarice, I was a good pal to you, and you were a turd. John Cleary, no grinning and large-breasted pom-pom shaker could reveal the high-minded wisdoms I truck in. And the givers of athletic prizes. And the designers of children’s shoes. Before long, you’ve worked up to your parents, who are blind to the spit you feel yourself to be writhing on. Just thinking how bad they’ll feel reading this note makes you cry, but you keep writing, letting big tears splash the page so they’ll know how bad you felt.
Anacin from a brand new bottle get counted out till you reach one hundred - “one hundred bitter wishes,” the poet Craig Raine will write someday of another girl.
Thus readied, you step into this puddle of dress-the closet’s only black one - and pull it over your legs and up waist high. It’s satin-back crepe and slides over your skin like water, but too small so you have to struggle to get the zipper up. It’s short enough to pass for a shirt, and your hands hang down too long from the sleeves like a chimp’s.
You wash the pills down three and four at a time, but only get as far as ten or twelve before the melted pill taste is too bitter to stand. So you mash some with the spoon back, mix the powder in orange juice, hold your nose. Still the bitterness starts a gag. And since discomfort is not now (nor ever will be) your long suit (and since it’s less death than family attention you crave), you decide you’ve swallowed enough, skinny as you are.
Having cried yourself quiet, you now lie down in the bed and cross hands over your chest and arrange the skirt so your underpants aren’t gaping out at everybody. In this pose, you wait to die.
Then comes the first sliver of fear, a sharp and shining itch of it from the prospect of snuffing out. If you don’t exist, who will impart your tremendous insights, write the great poems you design in your head that never see paper? You lie there and listen to the neighbor dog yip-yipping, cars idling by.
Mr. Lawrence is digging in the side yard. He shouts to his wife, This deep enough? And she says deeper, it’s rose bushes. You want to fling open your window and shout, Show some respect! I’m killing myself here. But they keep remarking on color and fullness of bloom.
Socrates never had this insignificant crap to listen to after he took the hemlock… You’re nowhere near dead - just wicked queasy, like that time deep sea fishing…
You pad through the house looking for an audience. …By the time your mother walks in less than an hour later, you’re kneeling on the cold floor tiles emptying the emptiness from your stomach into the small white emptiness of the wastebasket in your room. She helps you to the bathroom, dampens a washcloth to drape around your neck. You poor little duck she says, rubbing your back. You must have eaten something bad, she says. I’m throwing that old potato salad out, she says, and those shrimp your daddy brought home.
Bent over, sick and ashamed, you feel like the worst sort of fool.
When the heaves pass, Mother takes your angular self onto her lap in the ebony rocker. Your feet hang over the arms on one side. Poor poor you, she says. Your head lolls over her shoulder, your nose near the source of the Shalimar cloud that drifts around her - a smell of rose attar in oil. She says, You’re never too big to rock, but you’ll appreciate it, I know, if I leave off singing to you. Once when you wake up she asks what are you doing in that old dress, and you say seeing if it fits. And she says, That would be a negatory.
When Daddy comes in, he carries you to bed. Is there anything you feel like you could eat, Pokey? Anything at all?
All you can imagine putting in your mouth is a cold plum, one with really tight skin on the outside but gum-shocking sweetness inside. And he and your mother discuss where he might find some this late in the season. Mother says hell I don’t know. Further north, I’d guess.
The next morning, you wake up in your bed and sit up. Mother says, Pete, I think she’s up. He hollers in, You ready for breakfast, Pokey. Then he comes in grinning, still in his work clothes from the night before. He’s holding a farm bushel. The plums he empties onto the bed river toward you through folds in the quilt. If you stacked them up, they’d fill the deepest bin at the Piggly Wiggly.
Damned if I didn’t get the urge to drive to Arkansas last night, he says.
Your mother stands behind him saying he’s pure USDA crazy.
Fort Smith, Arkansas. Found a roadside stand out there with a feller selling plums. And I says, Buddy, I got a little girl sick back in Texas. She’s got a hanker for plums and ain’t nothing else gonna do.
..It’s when you sink your teeth into the plum that you make a promise. The skin is still warm from riding in the sun in Daddy’s truck, and the nectar runs down your chin.
And you snap out of it. Or are snapped out of it. Never again will you lay a hand against yourself, not so long as there are plums to eat and somebody - anybody - who gives enough of a damn to haul them to you. So long as you bear the least nibblet of love for any other creature in this dark world, though in love portions are never stingy. There are no smidgens or pinches, only rolling abundance. That’s how you acquire the resolution for survival that the coming years are about to demand. You don’t earn it. It’s given.