an update

[jimboca]

I'm ok, but still stuck in this relationship and don't know how to get out. I hate to hurt someone. We talked and he mostly stopped asking me to do everything for him, but there are still other things that really get to me. First, he is agoraphobic and is very afraid to leave the house. Second, he is bi polar, like me. Two bi polar people can't

Comments

[mjkutan]

Just leave. you need to worry about your health and not what he will do if you leave. If he is going to hurt himself, then let him be stupid and hurt himself. He is continually hurting you and obviously doesn't care how he is affecting you. Get out! Leave! Fuck his problems! he's a big boy. It will be the best thing you ever do AND you will feel a lot better about yourself once you are helping YOURSELF get better. Stay with your mom, stay with a friend. Just get out before it's too late.

[kenlin]

Oh c'mon Jimbo... this is RIDICULOUS.

I love unicorns and rainbows too. Does that mean I have to catch them and trap them?

It's so obvious this is BAD BAD BAD. You have to get so. So what if he says he loves you.

You got to think about yourself and stand up for yourself. I think you know what the right thing to do.

BTW, I'm still waiting for those unicorns and rainbows to appear.

Jimbo!

[felixchaser]

This is a scary movie or what? NO way JOse! as you told me one day! I stay out from my old house since a couple of mounths! and almost quit to be on good shape because him My ex for now! I know its difficult , hurt , but when somebody loves you , don`t hurs you !

1.- Got out from there , its healthy for you meanly.
2.- Pills? i don´t have any idea ! but careful, everything is on your mind, medicine can help but is dangerous
3.- I`am no t your life example , since i been and still part of your life. But please think ON YOU
4.- You have people who caress about you, be near by them and don`t lose your basis, you are cleaver DON^T LOSE YOUR MIND PLEASE
5.- How can ask you get out from there??
6.- Now can`t help you, cause i buy my house a few days ago! alot of money to par, nothing in there , and try to fix my own life as you ask for.
So sorry you are on that situation, its no good.

I really caress about you , but so far from you until now.

Big Hugs and Good Luck