If I'm even allowed to post, I will. You don't know me, I don't know you, but I came across this entry and I just HAD to note. First off I'm so sorry people are causing problems with you and your girl, I had the same problem with my boyfriend, but we've been together for over a year now and things are going great, so hopefully no real harm was done with you two!
The problem with asking for help, is you get a certain view of things, if you can find someone who thinks differently, they're usually the ones that can help you most because they'll shed a different light on your situation....
Not only that, but they get a certain opinion built up over time, because they don't get to see everything that happens. My friends already have an opinion about my g/f, it's something that she or I cannot change.
Yes, my boyfriend is STILL upset about that. My friends don't see him as nicely as I would like them to. I think it's a protectiveness issue. They feel like they need to protect me, because he's an "older man".
But I love him, and that's as far as I take it. If my friends have their opinions I listen, but I usually try to forget it later. What's the point of letting my friends ruin a great thing for me?
Oh, and I read the entry you referred to (or rather the notes). Sounds interesting, of course I didn't read the entry, so I have no opinions of my own, but I'm glad things got resolved!
Thank you.
anonymous
September 13 2004, 22:24:06 UTC
Made life a good deal easier. the twisty stomach thingie I had is gone. And I when all the shit hits the fan, I won't even say "I told you so."
See, Jim, the problem with you is that you don't understand that I don't hate you. You hate me, and I no longer care, but I have no reason to stir shit up in your life. the fact of the matter is, I didn't want to see you hurt. And now I just don't fucking care.
You just lost your best friend. Of course, you had no idea I was your friend at all, so I don't expect you to mourn that loss any, but I figured you might want to know.
Re: Thank you.jimbojones2211September 14 2004, 18:02:44 UTC
Mike, I don't understand what you get about this whole "I never really wanted to talk to you, your a bum and I can't stand you or your way of life, leave me the fuck alone" thing, seems pretty clear to me.
I SUPPORT YOU AND AMANDA! DON'T TAKE ME OFF DON'T TAKE ME OFF! AMANDA AND JIMMY NUMBER 1 WOOT WOOT! That and *does a cute little pose* why take me off I'm your sister, THAT AND I CAN ALWAYS COME BACK AND ATTACK YOU WITH AN EPEE! I'VE BEEN FENCING! *shimering battle like pose from all the animes*
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The problem with asking for help, is you get a certain view of things, if you can find someone who thinks differently, they're usually the ones that can help you most because they'll shed a different light on your situation....
Lastly, love the picture! Major props to you!
~Sammy-Joe
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But I love him, and that's as far as I take it. If my friends have their opinions I listen, but I usually try to forget it later. What's the point of letting my friends ruin a great thing for me?
Oh, and I read the entry you referred to (or rather the notes). Sounds interesting, of course I didn't read the entry, so I have no opinions of my own, but I'm glad things got resolved!
~Sammy-Joe
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See, Jim, the problem with you is that you don't understand that I don't hate you. You hate me, and I no longer care, but I have no reason to stir shit up in your life. the fact of the matter is, I didn't want to see you hurt. And now I just don't fucking care.
You just lost your best friend. Of course, you had no idea I was your friend at all, so I don't expect you to mourn that loss any, but I figured you might want to know.
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