Meeting the Parents

[jinxd_life]

I had a phone conversation with my sister today, relaying to me the conversation that she just had with our parents. On any day, i would not be worried about things that they are about to say. I usually end up dismissing their "pabilin" especially when it came to smoking, staying up late (that includes watching gigs), and working too hard

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[sojourners_feet]

RELAX!!! CALM DOWN. you cannot control the situation and how each party will think/act/react. all you can do is be calm and matured about it. you know your parents and you know mendel. so have trust that everything will be okay. and even if it turned out to be a disaster, IT WILL STILL BE OKAY. YOU WILL BE OKAY. MENDEL WILL BE OKAY. YOUR PARENTS WILL BE OKAY.

at the end of the day, this will just be an "appointment". don't put too much pressure on it and on yourself. most importantly, a disaster appointment/meeting will not break you and mendel up, neither will it make you love your parents less and vice versa.

BIG HUGS!!! I WISH I WAS THERE TO MAKE YOU FEEL MORE NERVOUS! :P

I WISH I WAS THERE TO MAKE YOU FEEL MORE NERVOUS! :P

[jinxd_life]

you're suppose to make me feel better by way of alcoholism and not to make me paranoid.

[loveplus]

aw, man! nakaka-kaba nga yan. pero i think everything will be ok. i mean, sila naman yung nag-imbita ... siguro napansin na rin na matagal na kayo, so ... naisip na seryoso na talaga kayo :) talagang may mga opinions ang parents eh. kung may sabihin man sila, isipin mo na lang na china-challenge nila lang kayo. kung matibay ka talaga. kung matibay ba talaga si mendel ... and i know that both of you are strong, so ok lang yaaaaan! :)

*hugs*!!!

[jinxd_life]

uy, kwentuhan mo kaya ako. at least ikaw you can invite your boyfriends to your house. I don't know how i'm going to react. I might even end up locking myself inside my room and leaving Mendel to my parents.

[loveplus]

wag! wag mo iwanan. kelangan ka nya dun!

when i brought "them" (sus parang andami haha) to my house wala naman masyadong heavy Q&A. just the basics. they just wanna know kung may goal sa buhay yung boyfriend ng anak nila. haha :) and, it also helped that the boyfriends cracked jokes, made bola to my mom ... it works, pare. sense of humor, goal sa buhay ... ano pa ba ... compliment the food, the house, and yes, ask questions din, haha! sus, kayang kaya ni mendel yun no! witty and charming naman sya eh!

at first you'll feel awkward, pero basta relax ka lang kitkat...you can always make singit when the conversation makes you feel uneasy. :) wag rin iinit ulo, wag ka mag-make faces haha :) basta cool lang :) smoke ka muna ng joint. ehe.

[jinxd_life]

HAHAHAHAHAHA!!! iniisip ko nga inom muna ako until i'm tipsy before i bring Mendel sa bahay. putcha.

I still have time though. Wala pa naman pebs ko and they are still unsure when they are coming back to Manila.

Thanks shine!