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soo, I had a date saturday evening. and thus I will share the happenings with you.
lj-cut for those who dont care.
well, i spent like hours siting here trying to figure out how to get this down, and I am at a loss, so I will just spew it out as it is in my head, all jumbled around. so first I shall start with a bit of a back story.
it all started a month ago when I got a new employee at work. I later learned she wanted to hang out with me. we hung out once, then she met some other guy and started going out with him, as us dating could have caused issues workwise. then one week ago on saturday morning after work I had to do trash pickup on the highway with some volunteers from work, she was one of them, and her friend came in to help as well. on monday I needed to send someone home for the week, she volunteered and her friend had to come in to pick her up. while her friend was on the way she cornered me and asked what I thought of her friend. when I responded I thought she was cool she then said her friend wanted to know if I would go to the movies with her saturday. her and her bf would be there with us as well(her friend didnt wanna go alone, she too is shy, like me) so that led up to going out last night.
well, as they all had to ride together they met here at my house, my bro and everyone had up and shown up, I left them to lock up when they were done and we all piled into my car to go to the movie. we saw the 40 year old virgin. I was hoping to go to dinner or something as well so we could get a chance to talk, that didnt happen. we did however hang out here at my house for about 15 minutes after the date. I offered to drive her home so her friend wouldnt, she said shed rather have her friend drive her home, appeared to be for 2 reasons, she didnt want to make me do all that extra driving just to take her home, and her friend already knew how to get to her house. at this point something unexpected to me happened. she had her friend and bf leave the house first, she then kissed me, now, I only mention this for one reason. anyone whoknow me well know one thing about me, I dont try to keep it a secret, but I dont go broadcasting it either. I have never had sex with a girl, or really kissed one either. and I only had one date before, with a girl who ended up wanting to use me for money, so I dont really count it. so as you can iomagine this caught me off guard, and I think I screwed it up.
I also feel like I made several other mistakes on the date, I never knew what to say to her, or what to do, I felt at times like she wanted me to do something, but I didnt know what, the only thing I managed to pick up on was her wanting me to hold her hand. overall it went rather well, and she may actually be willing to go out with me again, but I made one other mistake, I forgot to trade phone numbers with her before she left. so now I gotta find a way to trade numbers with her through her friend without looking like a total loser. it could get somewhat interesting.
I shall keep you all posted(those who care) on the happennings. I may end up with my first real gf out of this. and next time hopefully it will be just me and her somewhere where we can talk a bit.
and that is all for now. its just after 3 in the morning, been 6 hours since she left, and I still am thinking about the date, is this bad? or normal?
lj-cut for those who dont care.
well, i spent like hours siting here trying to figure out how to get this down, and I am at a loss, so I will just spew it out as it is in my head, all jumbled around. so first I shall start with a bit of a back story.
it all started a month ago when I got a new employee at work. I later learned she wanted to hang out with me. we hung out once, then she met some other guy and started going out with him, as us dating could have caused issues workwise. then one week ago on saturday morning after work I had to do trash pickup on the highway with some volunteers from work, she was one of them, and her friend came in to help as well. on monday I needed to send someone home for the week, she volunteered and her friend had to come in to pick her up. while her friend was on the way she cornered me and asked what I thought of her friend. when I responded I thought she was cool she then said her friend wanted to know if I would go to the movies with her saturday. her and her bf would be there with us as well(her friend didnt wanna go alone, she too is shy, like me) so that led up to going out last night.
well, as they all had to ride together they met here at my house, my bro and everyone had up and shown up, I left them to lock up when they were done and we all piled into my car to go to the movie. we saw the 40 year old virgin. I was hoping to go to dinner or something as well so we could get a chance to talk, that didnt happen. we did however hang out here at my house for about 15 minutes after the date. I offered to drive her home so her friend wouldnt, she said shed rather have her friend drive her home, appeared to be for 2 reasons, she didnt want to make me do all that extra driving just to take her home, and her friend already knew how to get to her house. at this point something unexpected to me happened. she had her friend and bf leave the house first, she then kissed me, now, I only mention this for one reason. anyone whoknow me well know one thing about me, I dont try to keep it a secret, but I dont go broadcasting it either. I have never had sex with a girl, or really kissed one either. and I only had one date before, with a girl who ended up wanting to use me for money, so I dont really count it. so as you can iomagine this caught me off guard, and I think I screwed it up.
I also feel like I made several other mistakes on the date, I never knew what to say to her, or what to do, I felt at times like she wanted me to do something, but I didnt know what, the only thing I managed to pick up on was her wanting me to hold her hand. overall it went rather well, and she may actually be willing to go out with me again, but I made one other mistake, I forgot to trade phone numbers with her before she left. so now I gotta find a way to trade numbers with her through her friend without looking like a total loser. it could get somewhat interesting.
I shall keep you all posted(those who care) on the happennings. I may end up with my first real gf out of this. and next time hopefully it will be just me and her somewhere where we can talk a bit.
and that is all for now. its just after 3 in the morning, been 6 hours since she left, and I still am thinking about the date, is this bad? or normal?