How

[jnnfr965]

How do I deal with the fact that I'm more than likely going to lose the most important person in my life? How do I go on? How long will it take? When will my self-esteem come back? When will I ever be able to trust someone?

Gah... too much to think about and too much time to think about it all.

Comments

Jenny hon!

[moonstain]

*cling hug* If you need me for anything Jen, don't hesitate to ask Chad and I. We will do whatever we can to help out!

[renlar]

Listen im sorry that you are hurting. But i love him, im not braging or trying to hurt you. Im not shallow either. Try looking at it from the up side, you are better off finding out now instead of spending more time together just to end up more miserable. You'll go on and be just fine since you are a strong individual. People fall in love more than once, and so will you.

WTF!

[moonstain]

What the FUCK do you mean by more time? I don't think you realize that they where together for 7 years!!!! So pardon me if I just spit my coffee all over the screen for your lack of feelings! And for your information... I was the one that said you where shallow and a home wrecker... At least have the sense in your head to not talk to her, and stop writing about it in your journal for the whole world to see, because it hurts her, and it's not right to enjoy what your doing out in the open for her to see!!!! I can't believe the insensitivity of it all! Now don't get me wrong... Im not saying it's all your fault and nore am I mad at you totaly. Because Jason is as much to blame for this as you are. But as I said at least have the backbone not to rub it in her face because sooner or later, it will come back at you. It's called Karma and no one is exempt from it! So remember that Jen is a person, like you with feelings, emotions, passions, needs, wants and so forth, so at least treat her with a little more respect, and consider the pain

Re: WTF!

[renlar]

Im sorry

Re: WTF!

[moonstain]

Just be more respectful and try to put yourself in her shoes! Think about how much it would hurt you if you knew your husband might go off and be with another woman after 7 years and 3 some odd years of marrage! I sit here and listen to her and hold her when she cries and I hurt for her! So at the very least try and remember what your putting her and have some consideration for another human being that feels and hurts and loves and cares just like you do.