A Question.

[joanc20]

If you’re looking to go into a relationship,
isn’t it important to like the guy first before you love him?

Comments

[haelin]

in my opinion, you don't fall in love and be in a relationship right away. You need to LIKE him first before anything else. so yesh, it's hella important to like him first..^^ if you wanna talk more about it, let's talk in private..^^

[joanc20]

hmm. i agree with you. and its okay. i've made up my mind. thanks for your comment. it helped a lot. ((:

[haelin]

np..^^

[kona_kup]

I think like and love are kinda different.

If you're thinking love as a more intense feeling than like, than I would say, "yes"

But I think like is when you find him pleasant, and love is when you hold someone to great importance for emotional reasons rather than other merits.

...it's kinda like this: I always love my sister, but I don't always like her when she's acting like a complete bitch.

Does that make sense? Kinda?

btw: this is xphantasm (joan). I made a new lj, so now I'm trying to refind people.

[kona_kup]

I forgot to add this: mind if I friend you again?

[joanc20]

of course i don't mind. lol.

[joanc20]

yea, i totally get your sister thing.

hmmm, i get what you're saying. and its kinda like what i think too. thanks for taking the time to reply. ((: