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joeygirl32

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Aug 29, 2005 23:15

I was thinking tonight about a comment Leece made a while back about someone else.

"She's never going to be happy."

Sometimes I wonder if I'm the same way.

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zargon10 August 30 2005, 08:41:57 UTC

I think for myself, it wasn't a question of 'if I was every going to be happy' but 'if I already was and didn't know it'. :) Try that perspective and see if it helps. :)

joeygirl32 August 30 2005, 17:28:25 UTC

You know - when I read that, it made me step back and think about my post. Maybe I don't know that I'm happy. Maybe I just didn't know that this was what it would feel like.

fatassjournal August 30 2005, 11:54:14 UTC

Wow. Who the hell was I talking about? I think I know.

And I don't feel that about you. You need to learn to love yourself is all. Stop trying to please everyone else but you and you'll be fine.

joeygirl32 August 30 2005, 17:26:38 UTC

It's all relative...there's your hint! Haha.

I know you don't feel that way. Look at Kathleen's reply above yours. I never thought to consider it that way, but it does make me look at it in a new light.

fatassjournal August 30 2005, 17:58:59 UTC

Well other than that, you have to ask yourself 'what would i need to be happy'? If the answer is materialistic then you're really not unhappy. If it involves other things, then you need to start working on making changes. You're the only one that can make sure that you're happy, and happy doesn't necessarily mean things are easy all the time. Generally I'm a happy person, but I have a lot of shit moments lately. I guess it's all in how you look at life.

zargon10 August 30 2005, 18:31:10 UTC

I thought of this later, but apparently, someone beat me to it! :D Yeah, just look at your life and see if you like what you see there or don't and if anything is missing.

Is your job okay? (maybe with your new job, its better now?) Is your health good? (I can tell you life really sucks when your health is bad and you can't do much) Is your man good? (I can also tell you how hard it is to find a good man) Does your family drive you crazy? Are you beoming bankrupt quickly? Do you like your friends? :D

If you don't have any major angst/problems and overall and you look forward to getting up in the morning, you're probably doing just fine! :)