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joltzapvire

Air Force Boyfriend Stuff..

Jan 07, 2011 05:00

I know you don't wana hear this so I won't text you... or call you since it's 4am >.<;; Don't be mad cus I'm too super cute for you to be angry! I'm listening to this info-mercial and it's pitching a collection of 1940s music, most of which are love songs. Rather than watching, I was using the TV as background noise like always. The most bizarre ( Read more... )

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pogaf January 7 2011, 20:33:29 UTC

Let's be friends? I'll listen to you <3

My boyfriend lives in AZ and I'm in NY 8 months out of the year. Not the same, but it's not easy.

joltzapvire January 8 2011, 18:13:19 UTC

Aww thanks so much! I'd love to :D Why are you guys apart?

citrus_vision January 13 2011, 05:10:22 UTC

Hey, I know exactly how you feel. My boyfriend is in the Navy. I live in Nebraska and he is stationed in San Diego. I miss him every second of every day, and I wish nothing more than to be able to be with him. But I just know that the waiting won't last forever and I try to keep strong.

Keep at it, things will get better. Try to go out, make new friends, do fun things to keep your mind at bay. You can do it!!!!!!

Sorry that I'm just a stranger, but I read and felt like commenting. :)

joltzapvire January 13 2011, 06:14:13 UTC

Thanks so much for the support. I don't think it's weird that you responded even though you're a stranger, there's a sort of bond when people go through situations like that.

Random question but how did you find my post?

citrus_vision January 14 2011, 08:29:24 UTC

pokemon collectors :D

joltzapvire January 14 2011, 19:16:43 UTC

Really! That's awesome <3

yurusumaji January 13 2011, 18:25:17 UTC

I'd like to be friends, too.

My husband is in the Air Force and The Silent Ranks need to stick together.

It's a hard life and it never really gets better, but you do learn to cope with it and find the things that help you get through the times when you are alone.

joltzapvire January 14 2011, 19:18:11 UTC

Yeah, I'm expecting it to be really hard. I only hope we can struggle through it.

yurusumaji January 14 2011, 19:23:49 UTC

There is no need for hope if you have a strong love for one another. :)

Keep your phone nearby and on its loudest ring setting at all times. Keep a support net around you. Invest in a good webcam. Keep a photo, keepsake, or both on or near you at all times. Stay busy. As busy as you can. Whether you're being productive, playing video games, watching anime or reading a book. Anything that requires your concentration and easily eats up the hours. All of it will help.

When my husband came back from his deployment it was the biggest, most intense sense of happiness/relief/adoration I have ever felt and it made me glad that I stood by him while he was away and that I held on for him. The separation is only temporary, and seeing them again after all that time is like seeing them for the first time all over again. It's amazing and if you love the man you're with, it's worth the wait.

joltzapvire January 14 2011, 19:48:56 UTC

He definitely is worth the wait. His dad was in the AF when he and my boyfriend's mom got married and she said staying busy will help so much. Thanks for your advice, I know where I can ask for advice next time <3