Dating is supposed to be fun. It's supposed to be safe. But we invest way too much in trying to make it work out. If we just let go and understand that it's a short-term thing, then we get the most out of it. We learn about ourselves. We learn about others. We experience a crazy, fun part of life, and we don't get destroyed during the process ( Read more... )

I spoke at a small school where three girls were pregnant by the same guy. Do you think they were lying to themselves?
From Dateable

Girls also tell themselves the "it's her fault" lie. When a guy cheats on you, you get mad at the GIRL. You're ready to rip her head off. You tell your friends that you can't wait to get ahold of her. She destroyed your relationship. She knew he had a girlfriend, but she did it anyway. He wouldn't have done anything if she hadn't made the ( Read more... )

It seems as though some people are looking forward to these posts - so here we go - One for the boys ( Read more... )

1. Who are you ( Read more... )

SEX GAMES 101 from Dateable ( Read more... )

Girls, don't ask a guy, "What are you thinking?" This forces a guy to lie to you. He was thikning about the ball game. he was thinking about how he forgot to do his homework. Or maybe he was thinking nothing - yeah, ladies, a guy can actually be thinking about absolutely nothing. But when you ask this, he won't tell you the truth. he'll say ( Read more... )

hey folks, it's been a while ( Read more... )

ok, who else thought the pants I wore last night were too short and that I looked like an old lady from behind?

Watched Napolean Dynamite over the weekend. OH MY GOSH - that was so Marsing Idaho in 1989!!!! I lived that whole movie and it was SO traumatic. I need counselling now.