or maybe i can wait till i'm 26, having never had a real girlfriend, or more than a hanful of dates with one girl and realize that i've missed a big chunk of my life. or better yet why dont i sell myself on the delusion that i need to focus on me and my work for a few more years cause its a lot easier to hide from what i really need that way, and then i can wake up when i'm thirty and kill myself. I didnt mean to sound too harsh in my initial post but i'm fucking tired of watching everyone else live life around me and waiting for my turn to participate, like one of those dogs tied to a meter outside watching their owners buying bagels (ok its late, that was a weird analogy) . . . i mean its easy to talk when you can walk into any club, any bar, any room and have guys and girls falling all over themselves to get to you
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"maybe you should just listen to you, and forget advice from your chick friends. you know? I have faith in you, man, I think you're gonna do good things. "
if you'll excuse me i need to go feed schroedinger's cat
Frustration frustration frustration..i dont know Josh, if jillian or izzy or julia or tia has a cute friend that suddenly materializes I just ask about it but i dont need anyone playing matchmaker for me. I dont think they just want to send me out to get laid. i think they know i can handle that on my own. i meet plenty of girls here and there and its only because at this point in my life and Im not 100% ready to do the relationship thing again that I am single. I think you need to chill abit and relax though. Your life isnt too bad from where i am sitting. Of course you want more, we all do but take stock of what you got at this moment. You have a great apt in a cool part of town, you get to make a living doing something you like and yeah you shoot hot women for a living and sometikes they are naked, im mean, cmon bro...smell the roses! Inevitably that girl will pop up. perhaps its just the way you are going about seeking her. you know?
well, i said ladies generally, there are more than that clique - ok, every female friend i have, a matchmaker sets you up, i'm talking even more hands off meeting people, cause i'm really not lookign for a relations ship ada yada, no looking for 'that girls' i want to meet many girls and want to meet girls that think of me 'like that' go anywhere or not thats fine but every single girl i ever meet puts me in the 'not interested' or 'friend' box . . . i need to go sing some cheap trick
Psychology 101joshskyeJanuary 24 2005, 05:45:13 UTC
Anyone that has not been through extensive therapy please raise your hand.
Jesus, this thread reads like the minutes of a support group meeting for codependants. Ladies, Mars needs women, so if you know any, introduce him. That's it. I think that's all he's asking for, not a lengthy psychoanalytical tirade about what he should and shouldn't be doing.
Rubin does us all the favor of being supernaturally blunt with us, we can return the favor. If you don't want to introduce him to your female friends, then just say so. He's not looking for an escort service, nor is he looking for his grandmother to set him up with a nice jewish girl from the congregation. He just wants to meet girls, and you can either facilitate that or ignore it, but don't try to tell him why he doesn't want that.
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"maybe you should just listen to you, and forget advice from your chick friends. you know? I have faith in you, man, I think you're gonna do good things. "
if you'll excuse me i need to go feed schroedinger's cat
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a matchmaker sets you up, i'm talking even more hands off meeting people, cause i'm really not lookign for a relations ship ada yada, no looking for 'that girls' i want to meet many girls and want to meet girls that think of me 'like that' go anywhere or not thats fine but every single girl i ever meet puts me in the 'not interested' or 'friend' box . . . i need to go sing some cheap trick
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Jesus, this thread reads like the minutes of a support group meeting for codependants. Ladies, Mars needs women, so if you know any, introduce him. That's it. I think that's all he's asking for, not a lengthy psychoanalytical tirade about what he should and shouldn't be doing.
Rubin does us all the favor of being supernaturally blunt with us, we can return the favor. If you don't want to introduce him to your female friends, then just say so. He's not looking for an escort service, nor is he looking for his grandmother to set him up with a nice jewish girl from the congregation. He just wants to meet girls, and you can either facilitate that or ignore it, but don't try to tell him why he doesn't want that.
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