...I Don't Understand...

[jp_luv_np_4ever]

Me: Sorry I'm not very talkative
Robby: It's okay, doesn't really matter anyway
Me: What do you mean by that?
Robby: Your gettin married so it doesn't make a whole lot of sense to still talk to you.
Me: You don't even want to talk to me anymore after everything we've ever been through?
Robby: I don't see why it matters anymore.
Me: At least I

Comments

[megamike]

This a former boyfriend? If so, it can be hard to accept an ex's new relationship. Especially if there's still feelings there.

But I could be waaaaay off base here..

[jp_luv_np_4ever]

We dated on and off but we've been best friends for over 4 yrs. That's why this really surprises me cuz I've always told him everything and it never bothered him before.

[megamike]

Sounds like there may be some feelings still there.

[heavenzangel]

Maybe he realizes he still digs you, and he's gonna just have to get over that... and it sucks that if ya been friends that long he would be throwing something like that at you now... *hugs* just tell him to shut tha hell up and deal.. smack him too.. hehe *grins*

[jp_luv_np_4ever]

Ya he deserves to be smacked. *slap* It hurts and all but even if he comes around and wants to be friends again I don't think I can. Just from what he said he seems like a totally different person to me now. Oh well if he can't be supportive and happy for me then he isn't worth being friends with.

Re:

[heavenzangel]

yeah, true friends should accept what you do and be happy for you, I hope everyone works out for ya

[eicnan]

I'd have to agree, it sounds like he's still in love with you. If he wasn't then why would it bother him that you're moving on. A true friend would be happy for you but it sounds like until he learns to let go he can't be anything but bitter. Give him time, maybe he'll learn to accept it eventually.

Ironically I've been in the exact same problem before so you're not alone.

[jp_luv_np_4ever]

I don't know if I want to be friends with him anymore cuz what he said really hurt me. If he was the one gettin married and stuff I would be sad but I would still be supportive and happy for him. I wouldn't make him feel bad for being happy ya know. I'll get over it eventually at least I hope.

[crazysexycool1]

Jealousy.Pure jealousy

[jp_luv_np_4ever]

The thing that makes me soo sad is the fact that he has to make me feel bad for being happy just cuz he isn't. It seems like he has changed a lot and that really bugs me cuz that isn't the Robby that I've always known. Oh well, I'll get over it eventually at least I hope.

[xashley]

Yes, it sounds to me like he does still have feelings for you. but how long have you been with your fiance as a couple now? this other guy should be used to it by now. what he said was just plain rude and disrespectful.

[jp_luv_np_4ever]

John and I have been together for a year and 2 months. Robby knew we were dating but it didn't bug him then. I disappeared for about 7 months and lost contact with Robby and then when I reappeared I was engaged. Still he should be supportive and happy for me cuz he was my best friend for like 4 years. We dated on and off too and he has always been there for me and stuff. He seems really different to me now though so I don't know.

[xashley]

yes i agree. it really sucks when you lose friends because of your other relationships. It's happened to me, it's happened to the best of us.